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My dog Tiki died last night.

I woke up this morning to let him go outside and he wouldn’t come out of his bed, i looked down and there he was. It was really unexpected, he was only 3 years old. He was like my best friend, I live on my own so he really was the only one there for me. It makes me so sad, but I know that he is in a better place. I just wish there would have been a sign or something. I miss him so much :(

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Is that tiki in the avitar pic ? I’m sorry.

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hudooguru offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Denver, CO, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

That sucks. Last monday, my dad went through somthing very similar and it really tore him up. I saw him today, and he’s doing better though. Very sorry about your loss. Frame his collar and hang it over a doorway facing west.

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Lilli offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
AU | 2 years, 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

My sympathies are with you.. I went through practically this very thing a couple of months ago, you can see all the great advice people offered me in the thread about my dog being put down. I don’t know there is an awful lot you can do to speed up the healing process, but time has really helped me along. I still feel sad about it, and the pangs of longing don’t really get any easier to deal with, but as much as possibly just be thankful that it was quick and that you didn’t have to see your beloved pet in agony or pain. You’re in my thoughts, and Tiki is probably now in the same place as my lovely Zak is, playing together and running free and happy.

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chillout157 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

awww sorry to here that,dogs r so precious and so reliabe and its very sad, take some time out to greive and then maybe think about getting another dog

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Ditzy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

so sorry to hear this. Hard losing a much loved companion like that ~squidges~ I like hudooguru’s idea of framing the collar perhaps with a picture of Tiki that way he can always be remembered

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

these things do happen. do u have any idea why he died?
no dog cud replace this one. but having a new one, im sure, wud be good for u.x

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (4 hours, 14 minutes after post)

i am so sorry for this. i don’t know what to say. it is not easy i am sure. hang on. :(

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OccultPizz offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Spokane, WA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (8 hours, 43 minutes after post)

I am sorry. I love my dogs and it always hurts when one of them dies, especially unexpedly.

First thing I do is get a new dog. It will never replace my old one, but I will eventually fall in love with the puppy which will ease my suffering ~smiles compassionately~

I love dogs and find them to be far more loyal and loving then most humans ~smiles~ I think people could learn from dogs in certain aspects.

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scoobiedo1208 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Maryville, TN, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (12 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Thanks you guys, Dan thats not’s Tiki in my current pic I am trying to find a good one to put on there. I am thinking about getting another one in a couple of months or so, I can’t decide what I want.

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scoobiedo1208 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Maryville, TN, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (12 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Ok. . .I just changed my pic, this was Tiki about a week after I got him. . . ~tear~

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Jim is good enough offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Akron, OH, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 days, 20 hours after post)

I am sorry for your loss. I hope your pain is small and gentle because I know a friend would not want to leave devastation behind. A friend would want a spot left in your heart that is warm and full with his memory. It will be that way even if the missing him now (and later) causes pain you will always remember him warmly and then he will be glad to have done his job.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

I am so, so sorry about Tiki. I stumbled upon your site looking for other peoples stories. I lost my dog just a few days ago (Sunday, July 29) and I completely understand the pain you are going through. Just be glad your dog had a great life and didn’t have to suffer. Too many dogs suffer years before they die. My dog had Cushings Disease his last few years and was 9 when he died. My sister went to drive the car and he was underneath looking asleep. She called him but he didn’t come. I feel terrible. The night before he was having troubles breathing and we suspect he had a siezure (sp?) (he had many) and bit his tongue, he may have had a heart attack too. I can’t seem to stop crying whenever I think about him… and knowing hes buried just makes me so sad. I just wish there was some way I could no that he didn’t have to suffer. I just wish he had died in his sleep. Know your dog passed gracefully. I’m sure they are both up in heaven happier without a worry. I know my dog is happier now and it is selfish of me to want him back but I wasn’t ready for him to go. I wish I could have said goodbye. Sorry for rambling on but know that you are not alone, and neither is Tiki. I am so sorry and I hope realizing that he is happier now helps you cope and find closure.

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scoobiedo1208 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Maryville, TN, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 days, 5 hours after post)

Thanks Jim and greenrider, I am feeling better now, I still miss him but i know that he is happier now. Greenrider, sorry about your dog to and welcome to the site.

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 weeks after post)

you gotta get a new baby :)

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scoobiedo1208 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Maryville, TN, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 weeks after post)

I am now that i have gotten over the shock of it. I still have my other Dog Grizzly and Cat aka Mama-Cat, both are outside. . .they are keeping me company in my lonley house. Thanks for asking.

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Whittier, CA, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

you need to get a playmate for your dog though, and maybe for your cat too!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 months after post)

My heart goes out to you over the lost of tiki.Know that tiki is in a better place and did not suffer,like my dog is doing now, its for the best he went in his sleep.I hope that my dog passes that way when she go,its so hard to see her suffer.I wish you strenght , to get over the loss

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