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I like my best friend thats a boy!

!!
Well, i went out with him for 2 weeks but he was my first boyfriend so i didnt know how to
be a good girl friend and i was shy then so he dumped me, but all i asked of him was that we
could still be friends and he said of course. So now he’s my best friend thats a guy and i’m his best friend thats a girl. We have everything in commen and we went to the same soccer camp and we had a blast together and we were on the same team. Then he invited me to go to his house to practice some soccer for 7th grade soccer
tryouts in auguest( witch we still need to plan this week. The thing is that…i’ve fallen back into a deep love for him and dont know what to do. His cousins called me alot because they new me from IM and they where
telling me that he liked me and was wondering if i likied him..but i said no where just friends and i heard him
in the background saying where just friends…but not in his serious voice. idk what to do about him…i realy love him and i think he might actualy have feelings for me finaly…i just need serious help on trying
to find out if he dose, schools about to start in like 3 weeks and i hope that we stay friends for a while unless he likes me too. Did i mention that he has a girlfriend but they never talk, and his girlfriend is realy nice but she’s realy shy and they have nothing in commen( but i’ve heard that uncommen lovers have a stronger relationship). i realy need help so pleaz help me!! THANKS!!!!

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Forevermine (no mas) offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Let things with him and his girlfriend sort out. If they stay together, then don’t try and get into the middle of things. If it was ment to be, then your time will come.

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beauty offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Naples, FL, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

this is a tough situation if you like him enough to try to make things work then you have to know that theres a chance that you could ruin the friendship say you get together and things dont work out you might break it off on bad terms then not only did you loose your boyfriend but you lost a really good friend also

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emmalou260 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
London, H9, GB | 2 years, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

hmm ok not number 1 at relationship advice as ur about to whitness but here it goes. Firstly let him n his gf sort themselves out, if they dnt talk they will not last, theres only going to be so long it can last, if they do split DO NOT GO STRAIGHT OUT WITH HIM!! sorry but however strong a relatioship is rebound still exsists and u do not want to be his rebound relationship, if they do split be there to comfort him. And at the end of the day hun u need to decide whats worth more, your friendship or the way you feel. if ur confident ur feelings are mutual then go for it but be prepared chick.

good luck!

em* x

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tommysize offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 2 years, 4 months ago (10 hours, 55 minutes after post)

strangle everyone

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