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Should i dump my boyfriend?

He is in korea but i met him at camp and he is really sweet. But i dont want my first relationship to be long distance. he is really sweet and just plainly awesome. I wanna dump him but at the same time i don’t want to its really confusing for me

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katie! offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
US | 2 years, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I think you guys are better off being friends, cuz i dont really think long distance relationships are the best

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funky_monkey_ma offline Unverified User #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 2 years, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

THANKSSS

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Jeff offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Gamla Stan, 26, SE | 2 years, 4 months ago (30 minutes after post)

If you are young and it’s just something fun, be straight with him. Just say, “Hey, I really like you and our time was awesome. But until we’re, you know, physically near again, let’s just put this on the shelf.“

The idea being, in honesty, that you like him, would be willing to pick up where you left off, but until then let it be happy memories and move on.

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JBear56 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Why cant you guys remain friends for the time being, because Im assuming you dont want to or is ready to commit. So instead ya’ll two going through petty drama just be friends for now and commit when you guys ar ready, willing, and are near each other. Long distance relationships are arduous so if your not serious dont waste your time or his. Its not like you guys could never ever go out again so whats the rush for?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (11 months, 3 weeks after post)

I broke up form a long term relationship a few years back and I will never regret it! I went on holiday to new zealand and it just didnt work out when i got back. it was well too much to rig eachother loads and i guess we both didnt no if it was just summer love. Happind so fast…….
Hope u make the right choice for you”

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