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DaemonBreed
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Durham, NC, US

I need a good self-help site.

I’ve tried getting therapy from my parents but, to be blunt, we’re just too poor. So I need a self-help site so I can do it myself.

My main problem (at the moment) is that I only rmemeber the bad things in life. Last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend, whom I’ve been going out with for 6 months now, and she made me realize that all the bad things that have happened throuhout our time together are always at the front of my mind. You mention the name (**** *********) and him feeling her up is right there. But you mention some romantic thing that happened or something really funny that happened, it takes me a minute to remember, if I rememeber at all.

Can anybody help me out here? I just need a site that will guide me… to choose what I remember I guess.

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CrackHacky offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Mill Hall, PA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

you will always remember things stronger that you have more of an emotional commitment to.

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DaemonBreed offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
Durham, NC, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Thanks everyone, but I’m just not up to talking to people about my problems, maybe if it was someone close to me…

I don’t know, I just need to find out how I can help myself,

Thanks anyway everyone, your replies have helped.

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DaemonBreed offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
Durham, NC, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

Thank you, thats a really good idea

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reuben_neitha offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

my girlfriend and i are supposed to get married this year, right now shes writing her exams, after her exam we both decided to get married but the problem is we are miles apart and i dont have money to go there and bring her down here, so, i told her to come to my place after her exam, she says if you love me you have to come and take me. i really love her and i dont want to lose her, what happen now is she couldnt even study, sleep,and eat… shes crying all night n day so, how should i make her happy and make her love me more and what should i do now? i really need your help…. please

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