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try getting a new job…try starting a new career in college…try making new friends…throw out the ones you already had…if your on your own try moving.

cokey0420 couldn’t say it any better. start new. get away from the situation or people you are around now. keep us posted

I’ll start with a little story… a priest was walking down a country road one day. He found himself feeling dismayed and disappointed as he passed by farm after farm that looked to be falling apart… the field growing high with weeds, the fences in disrepair, the farm houses looking like they were abandoned… then, as he kept walking he came across a farm that looked fantastic. The fences were all repaired and with a fresh coat of whitewash, the fields were all neatly trimed and plowed, the farm house looked like a classic victorian with brightly painted ‘gingerbread trim’…. as he walked he came across the farmer who was sitting on his tracker, but at the moment was taking a break drinking some lemonade. The priest called out to the farmer, and said, “The lord has truly blessed you with a beautiful farm my friend”. The farmer looked down at the priest from his tractor, and said, “yes father, the good Lord in heaven has been good to me, and has given me many blessings… But you should have seen this dam* place before I CAME ALONG!”

The moral of the story… yes, We can look to God to fix our problems… but God only supplies the raw data, or gross materials… the rest is up to us! So, yes… the Universe, God, The Source; whatever you want to call the higher power, will send you what you ask for, but you need to be focused and you need to be prepared to 1) act quickly when it is sent, and 2) be willing to work with what is sent a little bit.

So, What is your dream. If you want an extraordinary life, you need to have a dream, or a vision of what you want to be… where you want to go. Something that will inspire you… to PULL you forward. YOUR LIFE HAS NOT BEEN A MISTAKE. Everything in your life has brought you to RIGHT HERE. And this is where you are supposed to be RIGHT NOW. Right now is all you have… dwell in the past, it is the past you will keep reliving. Dwell in the future, and you will live in a dream. Dream your dream, and LIVE in right now, making the choices to make your dream come true.
Bright blessings~
Richard

hey buddy ,

i like the way you think , this is a really inspiring piece of literature. im going to college soon and things are uncertain , i pray long an dhars about life liberty andthe pursuit and imstill trying to decide what im gonna do .

YOUR LIFE HAS NOT BEEN A MISTAKE. Everything in your life has brought you to RIGHT HERE. And this is where you are supposed to be RIGHT NOW.

Thank you Richard.
That is wonderful. I learn more about you, and the more i like it.

At the moment that I read the piece that Richard presented I was feeling pretty lost about some things that I am going through right now and I was beginning to feel that all is lost, but after reading Richard’s piece I realize that all I need is right before me I just have to set my sights and put what I have to work. Thank you richard for opening this man’s eyes.

I used to feel like you. Lonely, uncertain of my future, not sure if I mattered to anyone.Then one day I heard a message that touched my heart. The words seemed to reach inside of me and it was if they were written just for me. And they were. They were written by God, the creator of me, and all human life.
The day I heard this mesage I realized why I was so messed up. It was because I had no connection to the creator of all good things. Sure, I had heard of God, I even went to church as a little boy, but I did not have a connection to Him, no way to relate to Him. Until, I heard about Jesus Christ, His Son, and how through Him, there was a way to connect. Once I realized this truth, I just got on my knee’s and asked God into my life. I invited Him in. I asked God to forgive me for anything wrong in my life. I told Him “you take over God and help me with this life of mine”.
And praise God, I am a new man, with a new heart and a new sense of being. MY LIFE HAS MEANING NOW! No more wondering about who am I or where I’m going. I’m going where God leads me. And because He is the creator of all good things, I know it’ll be good!!

helow everyone!
i am too going on a wrong path for so long now. i’m uncertin of my life, what i want and what will make me happy. i feel empty, lonely, unhappy and scared. i know for the fact that the answer to my problems is God! but i seem to can’t connect with HIm no matter how i do it. could anyone please help me?….

I want to address to those people which aren’t indifferent!
I live in Russia, at me the small child, to it 2 years, and the husband which has no citizenship. Our work doesn’t allow us to get own habitation, we live in apartment of my mum, she constantly blackmails us that will expel us that will make so that my husband deported, all time establishes rules and conditions because of that that we live on its living space, all of us carried out, but already forces aren’t present, it exhausts me, each time to threaten to expel, extorts money etc. I daily go from work to take away the child from a garden think that one fine day can’t simply get home because it us has expelled. I tried to talk, be on friendly terms and normally to communicate, but she wants only that I to it paid money and fulfilled all requirements. People help me please, at times I even wouldn’t like to live from a pain any more. Hear my call for help. If can though how many нибудь to transfer money into account 410011263592113 (яндекс - money) I will pray for you!

Am a paraplegic with two. Stage. Fore pressure ulcers on my buttock. With a bone infection in my. Right hip after staying72 days in kindred hospital. I was put out. Medicare ran out am now in a nursing home. Am 43 I have no home but am still strong and want give up no matter what I have family in detroit but they ain’t. **** forgive my bad language but it’s the truth I just need some help. To learn more or to help please e mail. Me back I have written to bill. Gates. But no reply

Your post was made 5 year ago. Were you able to get help? Could you go to a church for help?

haayewan wrote:
helow everyone!
i am too going on a wrong path for so long now. i’m uncertin of my life, what i want and what will make me happy. i feel empty, lonely, unhappy and scared. i know for the fact that the answer to my problems is God! but i seem to can’t connect with HIm no matter how i do it. could anyone please help me?….

I’m sorry for your mental pain. I can relate to emotional pain having suffered it most all my life. Get involved with some church group, or support group, so you can talk to other people.

hello my name is eddie williams.i loss my job 2 years ago because of my disabilities.i suffer from asma which i have had for 52 years. silent reflex i can bearly speak clearly and i can bearly walk because of the accident.i have loss nearly everything i once loss waiting on disability benefits.i have no friends no funds and no answers.please my request is please help me financeally,i need your prayers your help.please consider.my phone 16015130442 or email me asap.thank you may god bless you and your website.thank you.

I hope these simple thoughts help you, they may not sound very sensational but do the following and see;

1. You need to accept the position you’re in - what is, just is
2. There is no point in worrying, however bad your situation - ask yourself - is worrying helping me or hindering me achieve my goals and solve my problems ? Keep asking yourself this over and over, whenever you need to
3 You can do nothing about the past, it’s over, if you made mistakes, ok you can learn from them but there is no point at all beating yourself up.
4. You can only solve your problems in the present, there is no past there is no future , only the now - focus on the present moment it’s the only time there is.
5. Never judge other people, just observe - judgement is weakness, observation is power.
6. Learn to observe your own thoughts and ask - is this helpful ? if it’s not why do would you want to hang on to the pain ?

Accept what is, just is. Never judge, just observe. Stop worrying and oh yes NEVER BE RESENTFULL , IT MAKES YOU ILL - seriously stop it !

Write down all the good things that have happened, focus on the now - Feel any better ?

Good luck to you all - it odesn’t work over night so keep practising

Hello, this sounds a very difficult situation for you.

To get your life back in control means you need to take control of your mind. If you can start to think clearly and more positively you will be able to to get your life back.

Think about what I’ve said above. Although you have been badly let down, unless you feel there is a chance he will come back ( if you want him to ) then what’s happened is over. You can’t look back or forward there is no point, concentrate on the “NOW” that is the only time there is. Does feeling resentment, anger or other such feelings help you ?

You have many positives, your children - as you say are your world, is hiding away going to help you or them.

You deserve to be happy, everyone does, so say - “I wish to be happy”

Wite down your positive thoughts, your children , your family, any point however small write it down and read it every day.

Try reading a book called ” a bug free mind ” there are also some great positive thinking books in Amazon some you can download for a few dollars.

Stop worrying - it doesn’t help you.

Smile - with you children

I hope this helps a little

Take care and best wishes

I am sorry but I don’t understand your concerns

Give me help, please. I have been trying to kill myself for yeas, but I see immune to the drugs I take every day. Anything from opiates to sedatives. I am 50 years old and I am asking for a house where I can figure out my life. I attempted to return to the US states a few times; but my mental health is unsuited and weighs against me. No ******* one under stands what it is like to be 50 year old with a education that has taught over 5000 children overseas EFL language; but yet I go home and my society could care less; which makes me want to get a gun and kill someone and then myself. Yes, I am anti-social to certain degree, bet abused and posses this **** up personality. Yet, I am so perceptive of any intelligent being that comes before. I can tell what that are, and what will become of them. But this gift is a torture; especially when it finds itself in to the international political area.

Give me guidance, before I chose a career of violence; or a career to help people to avoid this path. If you choice as well as mine.