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try getting a new job…try starting a new career in college…try making new friends…throw out the ones you already had…if your on your own try moving.

cokey0420 couldn’t say it any better. start new. get away from the situation or people you are around now. keep us posted

I’ll start with a little story… a priest was walking down a country road one day. He found himself feeling dismayed and disappointed as he passed by farm after farm that looked to be falling apart… the field growing high with weeds, the fences in disrepair, the farm houses looking like they were abandoned… then, as he kept walking he came across a farm that looked fantastic. The fences were all repaired and with a fresh coat of whitewash, the fields were all neatly trimed and plowed, the farm house looked like a classic victorian with brightly painted ‘gingerbread trim’…. as he walked he came across the farmer who was sitting on his tracker, but at the moment was taking a break drinking some lemonade. The priest called out to the farmer, and said, “The lord has truly blessed you with a beautiful farm my friend”. The farmer looked down at the priest from his tractor, and said, “yes father, the good Lord in heaven has been good to me, and has given me many blessings… But you should have seen this dam* place before I CAME ALONG!”

The moral of the story… yes, We can look to God to fix our problems… but God only supplies the raw data, or gross materials… the rest is up to us! So, yes… the Universe, God, The Source; whatever you want to call the higher power, will send you what you ask for, but you need to be focused and you need to be prepared to 1) act quickly when it is sent, and 2) be willing to work with what is sent a little bit.

So, What is your dream. If you want an extraordinary life, you need to have a dream, or a vision of what you want to be… where you want to go. Something that will inspire you… to PULL you forward. YOUR LIFE HAS NOT BEEN A MISTAKE. Everything in your life has brought you to RIGHT HERE. And this is where you are supposed to be RIGHT NOW. Right now is all you have… dwell in the past, it is the past you will keep reliving. Dwell in the future, and you will live in a dream. Dream your dream, and LIVE in right now, making the choices to make your dream come true.
Bright blessings~
Richard

hey buddy ,

i like the way you think , this is a really inspiring piece of literature. im going to college soon and things are uncertain , i pray long an dhars about life liberty andthe pursuit and imstill trying to decide what im gonna do .

YOUR LIFE HAS NOT BEEN A MISTAKE. Everything in your life has brought you to RIGHT HERE. And this is where you are supposed to be RIGHT NOW.

Thank you Richard.
That is wonderful. I learn more about you, and the more i like it.

At the moment that I read the piece that Richard presented I was feeling pretty lost about some things that I am going through right now and I was beginning to feel that all is lost, but after reading Richard’s piece I realize that all I need is right before me I just have to set my sights and put what I have to work. Thank you richard for opening this man’s eyes.

I used to feel like you. Lonely, uncertain of my future, not sure if I mattered to anyone.Then one day I heard a message that touched my heart. The words seemed to reach inside of me and it was if they were written just for me. And they were. They were written by God, the creator of me, and all human life.
The day I heard this mesage I realized why I was so messed up. It was because I had no connection to the creator of all good things. Sure, I had heard of God, I even went to church as a little boy, but I did not have a connection to Him, no way to relate to Him. Until, I heard about Jesus Christ, His Son, and how through Him, there was a way to connect. Once I realized this truth, I just got on my knee’s and asked God into my life. I invited Him in. I asked God to forgive me for anything wrong in my life. I told Him “you take over God and help me with this life of mine”.
And praise God, I am a new man, with a new heart and a new sense of being. MY LIFE HAS MEANING NOW! No more wondering about who am I or where I’m going. I’m going where God leads me. And because He is the creator of all good things, I know it’ll be good!!