boyfriend help: What do you do when your boyfriend gets along with you great when your alone…but when your in crowds of people he tends to ignore you.

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What do you do when your boyfriend gets along with you great when your alone…

but when your in crowds of people he tends to ignore you. If you get angry at him about it he will just take it as a personal complaint….how do you get him to notice you in crowds without changing who you are as a person?

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vballchik3575 1 #
Fallbrook, CA, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

go to him nicely and say, ” honey, i feel like when we r together just u and me, u r a fantastic boyfriend…but when we get in groups of people, i feel like u tend to forget about me easily. Could u please include me a little more in convorsation or sumthing when we r around other people. thanks”
good luck,
Hayley

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bshur2schaue 0 #
Madison, WI, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I tried something similar to this…but he complains that I could talk to him more in groups…maybe this is just a problem I can’t resolve.

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AT | 2 years, 3 months ago (38 minutes after post)

i’m a guy, from a guys point of view, if hes drunk or not, and with his guy friends, he just wants to be one of the lads (guys), if not with the lads, (guys) let him know that you think he doesn’t include you when your in groups, if he feels strong for you he will start too.

bshur2schaue 0 #
Madison, WI, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (40 minutes after post)

thanks vballchik3575 and r1ckt198 for the good advice!

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GB | 2 years, 3 months ago (43 minutes after post)

sorry but he sounds immature and not very proud to be with you, id ake that clear and if he doesnt like it tell himto get lost!

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Jim is good enough 11 #
Akron, OH, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (6 hours, 7 minutes after post)

He is showing his true respect for you to his friends.

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vballchik3575 1 #
Fallbrook, CA, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (11 hours, 50 minutes after post)

if he says that u need to talk, if i was in ur point of veiw, i would “small” talk

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

from a personal experience… i think its a waste of time to put your all into something like this type of realationship and have him treat you poorly, if i were you id forget about him. he’ll realize how immature hes being and that in the long run ; he doesnt deserve to be with you anyways.

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