Love help: ok i have another problem.This time its my fault.My boyfriend

sexysholay-6

Valencia, 60, ES

ok i have another problem.This time its my fault.My

boyfriend has been working since 7.30am and finally came home at round abouts 8.15pm he then says he goes back to work from 9 until 12 because no-one can work tonight.He works in a restaurant and his boss asks him if he will go before work to clean outside and make sure everythings clean and he has to go buy papers,etc.So anyway i had a big argument with him about him going back to work thing is my boyfriend only gets about 3euros an hour and i want to see my boyfriend today.We were throwing things and both of us were angry.I said i hated him and i dont love him and he said the same and then he said its over and i said i finished it before you know the usual **** that comes out when your angry.I didnt mean anything that i said and it didnt change anything he still went to work.But this has happened many times before to do with his work or his family or friends.What can i do to keep him? I dont want to lose him im just angry that he would rather work than see me,or at least thats what it feels like to me.

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ok i have another problem.This time its my fault.My boyfriend has been working since 7.30am and finally came home at round abouts 8.15pm he then says he goes back to work from 9 until 12 because no-one can work tonight.He works in a restaurant and his boss asks him if he will go before work to clean outside and make sure everythings clean and he has to go buy papers,etc.So anyway i had a big argument with him about him going back to work thing is my boyfriend only gets about 3euros an hour and i want to see my boyfriend today.We were throwing things and both of us were angry.I said i hated him and i dont love him and he said the same and then he said its over and i said i finished it before you know the usual **** that comes out when your angry.I didnt mean anything that i said and it didnt change anything he still went to work.But this has happened many times before to do with his work or his family or friends.What can i do to keep him? I dont want to lose him im just angry that he would rather work than see me.

Help me with: ok now they have found our papers and we are getting married on 19th october but another problem.We have plans to go to England

king of kings 5 #
Alexandria, VA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

does he live with u i mean in your house and stuff

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sexysholay-6 1 #
Valencia, 60, ES | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I live with him and sometimes his mum and sister in his house.

Help me with: ok now they have found our papers and we are getting married on 19th october but another problem.We have plans to go to England

king of kings 5 #
Alexandria, VA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

so maby he works a lot because he pays or help pay for the house that y he works a lot and I think insted of fighting u guys should talk and see what the problen is.

Help me with: i just bouth this new phone from verizon and i got a problen i locked it and i need a passwork to unlock it but i dont got

sexysholay-6 1 #
Valencia, 60, ES | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

He pays all the bills,and this house is in his name but why work nights when i asked him not to he doesnt need to work 16hours aday and leave home alone at night which i really dont like.

Help me with: ok now they have found our papers and we are getting married on 19th october but another problem.We have plans to go to England

king of kings 5 #
Alexandria, VA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

maby he should stay here some nights like weekends and like in in betwen weekdays u should talk to him abouth that

Help me with: i just bouth this new phone from verizon and i got a problen i locked it and i need a passwork to unlock it but i dont got

king of kings 5 #
Alexandria, VA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

i mean stay there some nights sorry for the mistake

Help me with: i just bouth this new phone from verizon and i got a problen i locked it and i need a passwork to unlock it but i dont got

slimline2 20 #
Liston, 02, AU | 1 year, 2 months ago (28 minutes after post)

you should be glad he wants to work and get somewhere in life not like thousends what are just want to have fun,fun,fun ,what a catch there are plenty of girls out there they would take him away from you in a second if they could,be super nice to him,otherwise you will lose him….

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Bluecat 1 #
Dracut, MA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (29 minutes after post)

This guy’s got all of your bills to pay and you’re upset about being left alone at night? I think you should cook him a nice dinner tonight; maybe throw in a massage.

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Oster: Gettin' It. 3 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 hours, 46 minutes after post)

I got to the part where you were throwing things at each other, and thought, “These people must be Spanish.” You’re very passionate. Turn that passion to loving, and he will miss you when he’s away.

Hunter 1 #
Grays, O3, GB | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 26 minutes after post)

You shouldn’t be angry at him for trying to take care of you and the bills….
He’s doing his best to keep a roof over your heads, and if he’s only earning 3 Euros an hour then he probably needs to work all the hours God sends just to make ends meet!

I know it’s hard for you - my partner works 6 days a week 12 hour shifts to keep us going as I lost my job a couple of weeks after I found out I was pregnant, and now no-one wants to hire me because I am pregnant, so he is paying all the bills…

As Bluecat says, do something nice for him to show him how much you appreciate what he is doing - I might not be out at work, but I make sure the house is clean and tidy, that his clothes are always washed and that there is always a meal waiting for him when he gets home. Little things, I know, but it shows him how much I care and that I’m so grateful to him for doing all this!
He comes home so tired, and the last thing he needs is me nagging him to stay home….I know he would be here more if he could.

Just try to be a little more understanding, I guess is what I’m trying to say, and be thankful you have a man who is willing to sacrifice his free time to take care of you.

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sexysholay-6 1 #
Valencia, 60, ES | 1 year, 2 months ago (21 hours, 31 minutes after post)

The only problem is i dont know what times he works everyday because he starts and finishes at different times and sometimes he has to work nights and sometimes no.Anyway when he came home last he had forgotten we had been arguing i think its because he was too tired.I do clean the house,cook him meals when we have food because his mum has all his money and we have to wait for her to buy food and drink.My family send me money from England to buy food when she forgets.And what makes it worse is me and his sister who is just 15 dont get along and i cannot live with her she is driving me crazy.

Help me with: ok now they have found our papers and we are getting married on 19th october but another problem.We have plans to go to England

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

siktir git idiot

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ringofo #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

com on baby ı m always at home. be more glad

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