Love help: Hey, im kinda new to this kind of thing but i really need help. - Help.com

Theres not much you can do if she doesn’t love you back. Love works both ways, you know.

i know the feeling of not being able to get someone off your mind… when it comes down to it, though, is she wasting your time? you can’t make someone love you; you can try, but in the end, its up to her. she knows how you feel. if she doesnt return the feeling, consider it her loss.

i dunno if i should wait for her any longer, i mean im jus hoping tht she will love me like i love her in time. But i really dunno

Sometimes we always can’t have what we want, no matter how bad we want it. If you really love her, let her go and move on. If it is meant to be, she will find you later down the road.

****, i love her so much n now your telling me that i have to let her go. I hate it

you love her that much and she still wont return your love than you deserve someone better. It is her loss. and if you really can’t give her up that easily (because i know that is hard to do) than have you told her WHY you are so in love with her? Like specifically every small and big thing you love about her

i tell her why i love her all the time, shes the only one i can think about. I’ve even tol her i love her in front of her face

i say ” now thats not in love dude. thats call that you like her very much. love is something very different.love will happen when you guys hang around for like years and you guys never desire any thing else then partner. you said that you have dated some gals. dude if you are in love you will never date some one else. ”

im saying i dated other girls cuz i wanted my mind of her, n it still didnt work wen i tried. the girls i dated even noticed tht i wasnt paying attention to them n always looking at the girl i love

Life is long, and all people will change and grow with time. The feeling you have now for her might not change, but you will find that you can have this feeling again with someone else. It might not happen today, or even tomarrow, but you will find it. The tough part is the feeling must be returned. I have been in love, and others have been in love with me, where the feeling was not returned.

There have been people that I love, that Ilvoe from a distance. I only want them to be happy. Unfortunately, at times that can only happen when they are wih someone else.

Loving them means letting them go to do that.

hey, thx to everyone tht posted the advice. im the person tht wrote posted the problem, i jus posted it annoymously by accident. Just wanted u all to know tht i still love this girl, but i’ve learnt to move on cuz she jus got a new boyfriend. its fked up n i hate it but i hav to leave it be