boyfriend help: Whenever im with my boyfriend (just the two of us) he gets really - Help.com

Okay. So. Same went for me.
but we were never alone.
when me and him are ALONE then hes not so shy.

BUT!
you should try talking to your boyfriend.
and ask himm why are you so shy?
and
You dont have to be shy around me.

you know.
make him feel good.
and honey YOU SHOULD NOT BE DOING ALL WORK!
ughh.
If you wanna hold hands you TELL HIM! “AY i wanna hold hands!”
and he should grab your hand!
then eventually he will start doing all the work.

girl im goin throou the same thing too with my boyfriend i asked him and he said he dosent feel comfortable kissing me …….but idk wat to do now im just going to take it slow and always make him want me

this is the exact thing that happened to me .
my bf is hella shyy around mee &+ he NVR kissed
me . since he nvr kissed me , i nvr really went
for it . he would hug me & sometimes hella tight
which is kinda cute xD . when we walk along , he
wouldn`t really look me in the eyes but instead
he`d be playn` with his hands or fingers . haha
fill me in with dis too guys ;; i`ll be checkn`
in .

i think allt he advice isnt that good
im in a realationship rite now with a boy that wants to take things slow and ive told him how i fil and hes still like well i wana go slow still

I JUST WANT TO MOVE FAST
hes not like the other guys ive been with
i dont wana brake up with him and i dont wana be in a slow realtionship so its reali annoying
so who can give me advice??????

well in my place i have a bf too.. and hes the most shyst fish in da sea. my question is this.. okay im 17 and he’s was juss turned 20 i belive im his 3rd actual gf in his life he was in a realtionship wit a gurl since high skool but she screwd him ova and left him lke 1 or 2 yrs ago. not only that but he has a soon with her.. but now im lke wtf? cus if he has a son with her its obvese dat dey lke got busy lol u noe and i bin with him fo lke idk about 2 weeks already but we’ve nown eachother fo a while already adn he comes about everynite to my house and we always so deeply alone and bord. welli am we watch movies and tv all da time and talk. bout stuff u noe. but he dnt lke try anything and it makes me go nutts inside. i always want him to lke idk do stuff to me or atleast try or give me a hint dat he wants sumtin and he dnt may lke last nite was da first tiem i ever felt his hands and arms and i got to lay on him as we slept on da couch fo a while but yet no he still shyy im a savage by nature and yet i cant juss go at it. it would make me loook bad dnt u think……but idk wat to do and ive had other bf but dere never so shy its da other way around with da other guys in this realation ship i feel lke im da one who is gnna end up having o have control here and i dnt lke dat lke i said im a follower not a leader wen it comes to this lol..

You’re in a relationship with someone because you like them. Somehow that person caught your eye, tell them you miss the person that you fell for when you guys were not together.