Love help: IS LOVE JUST A LIE? - Help.com

No i don’t think love is a lie, love is too complex to be able to say what it is, there are no words to describe it and no pictures to make you understand the feelings you get.
Love is vast and when you touch it you want more and you will never let go and you will follow it anywhere in anytime : )

Maybe they thought it was best for you, i don’t know, maybe it wasn’t rea love as there are allot of different types of “love” out there, like the main one i can think of is a mothers love, a mother would die for there child and would do anything to protet their children, there was also a so called incedent where a child was trapped under a car after an accident and the mother so taken over actually lifeter the car at one end to release the child….. so as you can see love is true and real it just all depends what type of love you find

I don’t know what problems you both had or what went on, but it must have taken a big part of him to leave, and i know you must be in pain from this and more so if you loved him but woud you want him back knowing that he didn’t have the same feeling for you as you do for him?
Love is equal and should be that way, you deserve the same amount of love back as you give, and who knows it could be a good thing as no one knows the future there could very well be a person out there who you will click with and you will feel more love than you thought possible.

Yeah i know, but then you can’t force something like that even if you think he still loves you he must have some issues to sort out himself, just let him sort them out, give him time and just let him know how you feel abou him that you are still there for him and anything he wants to alk about you will listen, just reassure him that even if h has left it means nothing on how you feel, he might just need time to sort his head out and you never know he might actually let you in and you can find out whats o wrong

There is no way to prevent that, there is only so much you can do. All you can do is just let him know how much you care and how much you are hurt at the moment, hopefully if he cares for you still he will not want to do anything yet to further any pain he has caused. Its hard i know and im sorry that you are going through this, but try to understand that things happen for a rason, i know that sounds like crap at the moment but further down the line you will understand.

No need for thanks, just be well and stay safe and goodluck with your situation i hope it does work out th way you wish : )

Morrissey had it right, love is just a miserable lie

I don’t think that love is a lie because it is from your heart . Your heart never lies , If you love someone so you love him , If you hate someone so you hate him

in my case, yes, maybe a lie…more so something that did not even exist.
a mirage. just all in my head. left me hanging.

Love: A temporary, and sometimes ineffective, solution to loneliness.

i can see that sagudu. that’s true. well for me.

It has been the case for me, as well–in experience and through observation.

I think love is the only thing that keeps us going. Sometimes loving something means letting it go.

I have had many relationships that have ended badly, mostly because it needed more than love to keep going. Trust, intimacy, faith, communication.

sometimes i wonder why we start loving again when we know it is risky.
but maybe bec some things are worth trying for.

Love is real when you find it. You have to be sure what you’ve found is love and that takes time. Be patient….

Love is not a lie. Love can be hard and demanding of your emotional energy, but if it is with the right person it can be great. I think you should just leave him alone for awhile. If love gets so hard and complicated that you feel like you have nothing and you work and work and it is still hard, then maybe it’s not love afterall. Your world needs to revolve around you and your baby not a man that might or might not love you. If its not meant to be its not meant to be. You’ll move on.

when u are in the a happy situation love is not a lie it is heaven
but when that someone breaks your heart…yes it is a lie.:P

thats when you need to decide if its really love or lust. Because love is not a lie a person who says they love you when they don’t, they are the liers.

Even if it is, who cares? It’s powerful and incredible. It can cause intense happiness and overwhelming sadness, and sometimes both at once.

Also, you have to determine what’s obsession, what’s lust, what’s attraction, and what’s love.

True love is real.

Reminds me of “The Tide” by The Spill Canvas.
And there’s three, count ‘em-three
Children playing on the beach.
They were eager to learn,
To be taught, and to teach

There’s Veronica;
She’s biting her lip
As she watches the waves turn white at the tip.
And there’s Vaida;
Radiating with joy,
And luckily she still can’t stand the sight of a boy.
And lastly there’s Dave;
His hair dances in the wind,
And he’s wondering what love is,
And why it has to end.

And he can’t understand
How everyone goes on breathing when true love ends.
His mother whispers quietly;
Heaven’s not a place that you go when you die.
It’s that moment in life when you actually feel alive
So live for the moment.
And take this advice, live by every word,
Love is just a hoax so forget anything that you have heard
And live for the moment now.

And there’s three, count ‘em-three
Children growing on the beach.
They were eager to learn,
To be taught, and to teach

There’s Veronica;
She’s licking her lips
As she waits for her real, first passionate kiss.
And there’s Vaida;
She can’t admit her jealousy
Of her sister Veronica, and how she’s so pretty.(and how she’s so pretty)
And lastly there’s Dave;
Still sitting on the dock,
Ponders his life, and he skips his rocks.
And he wonders when his father will return,
But he’s not coming back.

And he can’t understand
How everyone goes on breathing when true love ends.
His mother whispers quietly;
Heaven’s not a place that you go when you die,
It’s that moment in life when you actually feel alive,
So live for the moment.
And take this advice, live by every word,
Love is just a hoax so forget everything that you have heard.

(Forget everything)

And there’s three, count ‘em-three
Children missing from the beach.
They were eager to learn,
To be taught, and to teach.

But the sad thing
Is that they never lived passed the age of fifteen
Due to neglect from their mother
Who was bed ridden by her ex-lover, their father.
And she didn’t even notice, or pay much attention
As the tide came in and swept her three into the ocean.
Now all her advice, it seems useless.

No, heaven’s not a place that you go when you die.
It’s that moment in life when you touch your edge and feel life.
So live for the moment.
And take this advice, live by every word,
Love’s completely real,
So forget anything that you have heard,
And live for the moment now.

BAH. WTF. They messed up the lyrics, I think.

The end chorus:

“It’s that moment in life when you touch her and you feel alive”

love a lie? Anything in life can become a lie. It really depends on how one keeps their promise.

A promise to love is a promise to care, so if someone promises to love you and they do not treat you well you should blame the person rather than the language.

Words do not have to be true, imagine someone can say they hate you but they can actually love you. So in the end, actions speak louder than words, it is the people in our lives how they treat us and how we treat them that ultimately define the difference between what is said and what is done.

maybe one can say that love is a lie because it was not love in the first place. it could just be something –a part of human frailty. because real love does not lie. it goes beyond the unexpected. beyond imagination.

Maybe this guy didn’t love you? Maybe it was just your brain telling your heart that this guy loves you? Thats were the “lie” comes in! My wife tells me she loves me everyday, and she may even believe it, but I don’t! Cause she never shows it. The little things just arn’t there. Take it from Jigoku Shoujo, “actions speak louder than words”

Keep chasing him, then nothing is all you’ll ever get! Love doesn’t work that way! You heard the old saying “if you love somebody,set them free”

Some love is, some loves not! ;)

yup

sometimes, I think, i dunno anymore