Love help: hiya i dont no wot to do my boyfriend an i hav been 2gether for - Help.com

i am sorry you are feeling down today. but i have to tell u
that you have to wait. when a man goes inside his cave, you have
to have to wait till he comes out. don’t follow him inside or else
u will be bitten by the dragon. :)

let him have the time to think about things. love is giving space
once in a while.

It sounds like he is abit scared of what will happen in the army and has allot of things going on in his head. I know its not nice being the one on the outside and being pushed away when you want to help him through his problems but sometimes being alone to think things though can help and also how he might normally figure out whats wrong. Just tell him how you feel, let him know that you care and that he can always talk to you however much he might think it will hurt, don’t ush him as it may make him feel pressured into doing or saying something he doesn’t want to say..

Lilies: i was writeing this as you just sent yours so if it sounds the same sorry i haven’t read what you said yet : )

agree with lillies too, sounds like a plan anon : ) I hope it works out the way you want

hello Anon, agree with LazyDaze and we wish u the best.

Lazy, it’s fine. :) im sure anon is glad she gets many replies. :)

aye, just makeing sure as i had an issue with someone the otherday who got all up themselfes about me saying exactly what they said but useing different words lol, i don’t copy any other advice i say what i think and many times its usually the same line of advice as everyone else, so i say that now incase someone thinks im being nasty

8 months? If you were good together and he wants space it may not genreally mean losing him.

A man requires time to think. There are certain problems running through his mind. Get ready for any decision, accept it, move on. If you are preoccupied about him, talk to him. Don’t talk too much though, get angry or anything. Results would get DISASTROUS.

And remember: A man is a man. He likes having his word respected. Just don’t let yourself get manipulated.

Silverwings wrote:

Be Blessed, Life is Short !!!!

…What’s longer? Life is the longest experience anyone will ever have.