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i know how you feel hun, i was at your stage not so long ago. it hurts, it really god dame hurts, but you got to be strong. first thing is spend alot of time around you friends and tell them everything, even if there heard it once tell them again. cos theywill help you through it. it does go as time goes on, i got cheated on why i wqas on holiday. it destroyed me, but i’m on the road to recovery. you may need to go to your doc an get some anti depressents. they do help, not straight away. but within two to three weeks, your start to feel better. i know two to three weeks seems so long. an nothing can stop the pain now. but hun. you will be fine. do the thing u like doing.

I know it hurts - you’re going to HAve to push yourself. Think about MAking yourself exercise everyday too….I know its near impossible/just want to sleep or cry - but you HAve to…it willpass I promise….

he/she is right will power

i know you are all right but its so hard - his parents keep ringing me saying he doesnt mean it and hes just young because they love me and have hope but it makes me feel like i have a chance and he just doesnt want to know.

Thing is it wasnt even a bad relationship - we argued a little like most people but nothing major then we argued over something and now i may be pregnant and i dont know how to deal with it as if i am i know he wouldnt want it and i wouldnt want to be a single mum but then again i wouldnt want to abort it eithe!

Kim, i had the same thing. every thing in my relationship i thought was fanatasic, we where planning to get married, and move out. i thought we where really happy, but then we went on holiday. an the it was like the world had turn on me. her mum and dad really like me, but all just went wrong over a holiday. couldn’t believe it. still can’t now sometimes. its so hard hun, trust me i know. an alot of other on her know as well. but you got to be strong. if he doesn’t want you, i know that proberly hurts when i say that. but if he doesn’t then get someone who does. and worship the floor you walk on. take him off that peedastall

I know all the answers sound pretty straight forward but its just so hard to accept it - how can somone love you one day and not the next - I know im being silly now it happens everyday doesnt it.

I think it does happen everyday. ALso - I think it can be that it is slowly happening but even the person its happening to may not know….LOOK - I dont know if you do, but I believe in Gods plan - i know that can sound pat and trite while you’re hurting - but have you heard the phrase ‘rejection is God’s protection’?….You can DO it!!! MOVE on!!! Find other things to focus on…know it sucks!!! Sorry!!! You’ll survive tho and someone will ADOre you and you’ll be glad its not this one….at least thats what I’m thinking/believing for ya!

You are right - thank you

don’t hold back your emotion if you want to cry, then cry.

if you let this hurt you too much now you should just make yourself feel glad that it didn’t happen like a few months later because then you would be killin 10 times more then you are now. whenever you’re at the stage of leaving you feel so shocked and depressed and feel as if you couldn’t love the person anymore than now because you’re so close, but as time goes by, u feel like the day before was nothing compared to the current moment. so if this happened some time after you would be hurtin so much thinking that it would’ve been better off if it happened in the earlier stages. right now it’s still gonna be hurtin for you and if you ever managed to get back together the same thing could happen again and you’ll just get hurt even more. you can either get emotional or move on. i know it’s hard and there’s nothing wrong with getting emotional but too much of it will get you nowhere, and by then you’ll find it even harder to move on so the sooner the better. don’t hurt yourself over someone who has just proved to you that you deserve better. find someone who’s worth it but never rush into a relationship. take care of yourself

Thank you - these kind words are overwhelming x