I’m so confused!
I have a boyfriend…we were doing really good for the first month… but now things are not going so well! I dont even think he notices though. But I recently have found someone else that I like. The other guy is my age and very sweet! I dont know what to do. My heart is hurting..I am hurting! I am so confused!
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if this other guy u like is nicer than him and your age, then dump this bf and go 4 the other
aww lol sorry i must have you mixed up with another lol silly me
You probably shouldnt be so worried about any one person at your age unless there just all that and a bag of chips. I mean really it’s not time to start thinking about serious relationships until your atleast 22ish, You have to atleast get to 21 and party in a few tropical settings before you can even start thinking about one person. If it was me I would date around, Not sleep around, but date around. See whats out on the field. The sea is plenty of fish.
at 21… i hope to be having kids and to be married! I’m not the party typem and my b/f is 23
Too each there own I suppose. If it was me I’d live it up your only young once.
strong feelings for your boyfriend woudnt mean liking someone else!
you either like 1 or the other really
so i agree with vballchick go for the one you like more hunny xx
I think it’s best if she just goes wild and lets it all work itself out in the wash.
IMHO.
This is not a personal attack.
Do you really know what love is? After only a month or so with him, you could harldy even know him well enough to really love him can you?
If he doesn’t seem to notice a problem, than maybe you could try talking to him, and pointing these thing’s out to him?
I suggest that you first talk to your bf and try to fix things with him. If things aren’t going so well and you feel that you need out then tell him so. take things one at a time and don’t overload, you don’t want to become lost in the issue. Good Luck!
I’m back! It’s great you found someone else. After your thorough (yup) descriptions of your old BF, and if this new guy is:
*smart
*assertive
*kind
*brave
then go and ask him for coffee!
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