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My friend wants me to ask this girl out for him cause hes shy, but im shy too and have never had a girlfriend/ date ever…

….what should i do?

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WantMore offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

He must first like enough to be able to risk rejection..it is a god test of how he feels. Being told no is not the end of the world, it just feels like it.

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Arcturus offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

No way! He needs to ask her himself. If you want to help out, show him how it’s done. Be brave and ask out the girl you’ve had your eye on ;) It is one of those things that gets easier every time.

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soccer24/7 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

yeah but still my courage is worst than his

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WantMore offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

So who do you want to ask out?

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Arcturus offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Keep it simple, heh. The reward is well worth the risk.

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soccer24/7 edited this post 2 years, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

My friend wants me to ask this girl out for him cause hes shy, but im shy too and have never had a girlfrien/ date ever…….what should i do?

soccer24/7 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

ummmm a girl ive like since 7th grade (now im in 9th) i think she likes me too

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WantMore offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Have you asked her out?

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Arcturus offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (29 minutes after post)

When I was your age, and older man told me to act fast because the good girls get taken first. It is good advice. Don’t be kicking yourself when she’s dating some other guy if you’ve never tried to ask her out yourself.

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soccer24/7 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (37 minutes after post)

ummmmm no i havent

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WantMore offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

You should…I usually tell myself that I am going out and collecting nos. Ask a girl out every day (different girls) until you have collected 50 nos. It changes your expectations and makes you less afaid of hearing no.

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iamme offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (45 minutes after post)

why are you shy of asking her for your friend, no one will shoot the messanger.

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iamme offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

Thats deep x2!!
Got cha!!!

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soccer24/7 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

well the messanger is a shy guy (woa tht rhyms……)

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iamme offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

what,now you’re a poet, too??
yeah, but just be like “umm listen my friend whats to know if ya wanna go out w/ him?” not too hard, now is it?
plus, a little more advice, have your friend ask her. the fact that he wont ask her himself is a huge turn off!! what’s going to happen when they actually go out? are you going to be there talking for them… no fun, no is it?

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josh12-4 offline Unverified User #
Ottawa, ON, CA | 2 years, 3 months ago (6 days, 21 hours after post)

he is being a jerk just tell him to do it hiself because if you ask her out she will think that you like her to

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josh12-4 offline Unverified User #
Ottawa, ON, CA | 2 years, 3 months ago (6 days, 21 hours after post)

what the hell is wrong with him he is an ***

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winklando offline Unverified User #
Eden Prairie, MN, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

This girl Shannon we going be in 9TH grade

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cp208 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Port Matilda, PA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

This kid asked me to ask this girl out for him, but I kind of like her myself. This other kid told her that the other kid was gross and she said “eww”. The original kid wants me to tell her the truth. what do I do?

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soccer24/7 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

id tell him to get someone else to do it(in a nice way)

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