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hi!!! welcome aboard…firtly, guess uv learnt that having a girlfrined does not mean that u gotta ignore friends…well, ive been through what u are undergoing…sorry for what uv been through…let go of ur past…dont hang on to it, its hard to do that, yes, but thats the only way out…maybe u feel depressed and that no one understands you coz things have not been goin fine with u.
dont luk forward to ‘when this will end’, make it all end…take control of ur life…dont let situations and circumstances guide u…concentrate on ur career.
all the best…

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Hey, everythings ok. It’s not that people don’t care about you, it’s just that they don’t show it enough for whatever reason. I’ve had friends like that, and I might still. I don’t talk to them much. There was a girl I really liked and she liked me I think. It was one awkward situation after another and then she’s leaving to Oregon to stay with her parents for a few reasons, one being medicare. I found out the day her friends and I were wishing her good-bye that she had been sleeping with a guy. I left, came back, left again, and then I didn’t feel like I had a choice. I went back, got her in private, and after a long few tries said “I think I love you”. Before she left I asked for a hug and she kissed me on the neck. Thinking on it now, I really think she’s playing me, cause she’s really smart and I think concieted. That doesn’t matter, I’m not even going to school. Not because of her, but I’ve been depressed. I don’t talk to her anymore. People do look out for you, your so messed up, what’r they supposed to say? Sorry? They don’t understand whats going on. It’s really personal, but try to open up a little bit. They won’t avoid you and if they do, who cares? You’ve still got people who love you probebly very much. I came to this conclusion: You can’t live for anyone else and you can’t die for yourself. Sorry it’s so long, but if you can still be in school, your stronger than I. That means something at least.

Hello there! I have been through the same stage. I believe you’re having difficulties to actually realise that one should be very very picky when they trust. The truth is there are not many people around that we can trust by 100%. Some people are just there to have fun with and some relationships either friendships or affairs do have an expiry date one way or another. That is, you don’t really have to trust everyone and not everyone can be your best friend. Some people’s presence in our lives is just educational in purpose. We learn from them even hurtful lessons and then we just leave them behind and move on with our new knowledge in mind. There are times when we are just left alone. We fall, we learn how to stand back up and move on. University life (speaking out of personal experience) is just like that. There is a lot of getting betrayed and backstabbing involved. However, you learn a lot because this is what life out of uni is like too. In my opinion you just need to make sure there are people in your life you can rely on even when they are away. Those are going to be your true friends! Screw everyone else and play their game…Believe me it’s going to be real fun!

Hang in there. We’ve ALL felt the same way at one time or another. It WILL get better. Go to the beach. Relax. Flirt. Listen to the music. Pretend you are happy and you will draw more happy people to you. That’s the kind of people you need to be around. Remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If you really want to feel better about yourself, do something to help others. No matter how bad you have it, look around and see that others are suffering too. Help them and you help yourself. Good luck and God bless. Also, get the CD called The Secret. Listen to it, especially chapter 8. Listen as many times as you need until you “get it.”

dr.albu wrote:
hi flamingopalmz……..i have not heard of “The secret CD”…..could u plz lemme knw something more about this!!!

Hi,
The Secret is at www.thesecret.tv.com. It’s been on Larry King live, Ophra, and other shows. Rhonda Byrne realized that throughout time, all the Master teachers achieved their goals by following certain principles. It was kept a secret, however. She decided to share her findings so many people could benefit. She made a film interviewing many top leaders in a variety of fields. Through them, she shows viewers that achieving any goal is simply basic quantum physics. Practicing this secret help anyone achieve whatever they want…good health, wealth, relationships, etc. It’s not luck. It’s really a science. Anyway, I purchased the CD and I listen to it nightly and when I’m driving. I’ve seen some remarkable things happen in a very short time, especially in regards to loved ones. Now I’m working on “wealth” issues. I purchased The Secret at Barnes and Nobel. I like the CD better than the book or DVD. It was also available at Target. And you can always get it at Amazon.com. I can’t imagine how wonderful it would have made my life to know these principles in my 20’s!