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my boo hoo love story part 2.

so you all read my other post, right? if not, please read it so you can understand this one.
anyway, my ‘freind’ that now is with my ex-bf was madly infatuated with this guy… lets name him Dan. He flirted with her, but he wasnt interested in anything serious. well, lately i’ve been talking to him more and i think he’s interested in me. i dont want to lead this on because even though my ‘friend’ played dirty and hooked up with my ex while i still liked him, i dont want to do the same thing to her. its not right. I dont know if she still likes him though, since she has a thing with my ex, but you never knwo. so what do i do?

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unepetiteang offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Denver, CO, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Run for your life. Anyone interested in just a fling, but leads others on is a self-certifiable jerk and you shouldn’t even try touching them with a fifty-foot pole. Ignore “Dan” and, if worst comes to worst, get some Mace.

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BE HAPPY offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Just be yourself ! love yourself and everything else will fall into it’s proper place. stand back and look, really look, at your ( friends)…if their meant to be friends they will be. let them come to you but keep your eyes and ears wide open.
Good luck and….

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BE HAPPY offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Love that hard look ” u “..hard but true !

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2 years, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

leave them both alone

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2 years, 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Go out with the new guy if you like him . Forget your “friend” cause she isnt really your friend if shell do that to you anyway and go have fun .

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live.enjoylife offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (34 minutes after post)

I think you could go out with ‘dan’ if you wanted to….BUT….maybe do you want to think of fnding new people?? if you feel he is honest, straight up, direct, why not? she’s not w/him anymore…..follow your heart - whatever has most peace/joy in it…..it’ll work out….

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XAmIeEX offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
Silksworth, D8, GB | 2 years, 3 months ago (8 hours, 55 minutes after post)

i think if u still like your ex!
stuff your friend and take back what was rightfully yours to start with!
giv your backstabbing mate a taste of her own medicine! xx

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iamme offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (13 hours, 15 minutes after post)

l0l “giv your backstabbing mate a taste of her own medicine!” i like that, but i would feel aweful afterwards. i dont want to reduce myself to her level.
there’s no way my ex and i will ever get back together. he’s a nice guy, but not bf material. as for ‘dan’ and me, i like him, he’s fun to hang out with and smart, but not bf material either. i dont want anything serious, i just got out of a very painful relationship & just want to have fun, u know? i just dont want to have fun with the wrong guy, if that makes any sense.

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soccer24/7 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

well good for u for not being the bad guy…..still there isnt much you can do

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iamme offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

im just letting it go… like you said, there isnt anything i can do.

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