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I’m SO SAD..

I Have no friends and I always feel alone…

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☆lilies☆ offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

how old are you? and what do you do?

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mjoypascua offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Dubai, 03, AE | 5 years, 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I am 22 years old and I am an office assistant…

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☆lilies☆ offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 10 months ago (16 minutes after post)

thanks for the info hun. why do u think u are sad?

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mjoypascua offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Dubai, 03, AE | 5 years, 10 months ago (18 minutes after post)

because I’m always alone… no one with me… my life is boring… i have no friends, no money, no everything… my life is very worthless…

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☆lilies☆ offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 10 months ago (18 minutes after post)

call your friends, get to know other people, have fun in the weekends, cook you fave food/dessert. those simple things can help u feel better. being sad can sometimes be just a phase that would easy go away after a moment or a day or two. you can never be sad forever. so for the meantime what about doing things that you enjoy?

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☆lilies☆ offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 10 months ago (21 minutes after post)

dont u live with your family? you are an adult now, adults have to know where their life is heading :) if you find it difficult, then at least name the things that you think can support your life in the next 10 years. u can also volunteer to a nearby shelter for you to feel your life’s usefulness. help people and stuff like that.
the beauty of life is to live each day as it is. you can never have too much happiness if you do not do anything to seek for it. it is also in your hands. good luck :)

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_appleboy_ offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 10 months ago (47 minutes after post)

We are all here as your frinds.So why are you worried? Share your feelings with us and we wil try our best to help you out.thats why we are here

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musheleng offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Windhoek, 21, NA | 5 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

don’t be alone when there is friends arounds you. We are here to share our bad and good and the more we share the more we get solution. Try to make friends if you don’t have and express the way you feel as all of us we went through difficult situation and happiness.

You will find out that you are not only one feel that way but lot of us. don’t sit and wait life change itself you have to change it and do whatever you like and have a plan what you want to do in your life. don’t just sit and see oppurtunity pass you by.

I wish you all the best and try to reach your goal

Mush

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allengraihcompany offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 10 months ago (8 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Life is never worthless. Life is precious. Cherish every moment that you have to live it. Keep up a posititve attitude, and love who you are. Happiness will follow.

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babysbreat offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (10 months, 2 weeks after post)

I’m sad too.

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sherikaschneide offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (10 months, 3 weeks after post)

hey! i’m sad too all the time i just really need someone to talk to besides i think my boy friend is gay

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s_saramandi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (1 year after post)

hey hun,

I hope since you posted this and that everything is ok. I know its bin a year but I think that the key to happiness is to laugh. I’m in the same position as you are in now and i think the best think to do is to go and watch a comedy, maybe hit the clubs and make friends, join a good chat room and talk amongst ppl with the same interests as you. Then go and maybe join a dating service for fun! and see where it takes you…You never know till you try…think that tomorrow is the day that i’m gonna do some of this stuff…and spend today preparing yourself for tomorrow to ease your mind. Live life and do random stuff like go to L.A and check out life there or something…go on a ghost tour its all fun…the world is full of fun stuff to do. I know its hard as you said you dont have money but save wisely and spend wisely and it get get you very far…best of luck and tell me how it goes x

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sab_sw offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

im sad too..i dont have any friends..i never go out on weekdays because i dont have nobody to hang out with. i feel so left out really..i am 17 and i never went to a club or a party or whatever, and all the girls and guys my age have way too many friends and go out at weekdays and having fun and go to parties and stuff..and i cand do any of that. sometimes i think life sucks..my life really sucks right now..and sometimes i just cant stand the feeling of lonliness no longer..

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safetycar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

one thing to cure loneliness is to put it off mind. what’s a big deal? it’s only your personal feeling, it doesn’t mean you’re weak or less competent or worthless, don’t for a moment think about it, even you think others judge you as a werid, then what? the only thing matters is how you look at yourself. let everything go as the way it is, enjoy being alone, life is beautiful in all kinds of ways.

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thcyyyb offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

im sad. im stressed. im depressed. i cut. my hair falls out here and there. i want to take these prescribed drugs i have…pretty strong i hear…oxycodone. something like that. but i dont want to die either. i just…i dont know.
help..?
please..?
my age…too young.
my gender…im human.

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akshayap10 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

go kill urself :]
In a good way :]

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emma997 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (1 year, 11 months after post)

you’re not alone
the truth is there are many ppl who are sad
MANY
so.. try to be nice and all, don’t backbite or ***** or anything like it.
be friendly and open, you’ll get friends for sure!
life’s boring and dull being alone, believe me.,
once you find friends, you’ll cheer up within no time.
and
this question you asked is really old right??
anyways be strong and positive

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emma997 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (1 year, 11 months after post)

oh boo hoo you have sob story to tell?
don’t act like you’re the only one
the truth is..
we’re all hurting
find friends
enjoy life

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tresa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (1 year, 11 months after post)

wha?

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jeremyqua offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (2 years, 2 months after post)

Hi, I’m really sad now. anyone could help me?

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razor90 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (2 years, 3 months after post)

Im so sad my girlfriend just broke up with me and now im so lonely I made up a song out of my sadness D;

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imsosorr offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (2 years, 3 months after post)

im so sorry itll get better

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (2 years, 6 months after post)

I hope you keep checking this. I know how you feel. I’m married with two beautiful children. I would do ANYTHING for my kids, but I am so drained all the time. I’m so sad it physically hurts constantly. I also feel the pressure of the few who do care about me, and I am always trying to be normal and look happy. It adds to everything. We have to keep trying though. There is a purpose to all this, even though I definitely don’t know it yet.

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Personwhohasalifeand offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (2 years, 9 months after post)

You ******* sad people just go and kill yourself not in a good way , whatever nobody even needs you , you all don’t have friends and a ******* lifeeeeeee
Ok i have a real advice now , go and **** someone maybe you will feel better
Ahahahah i have a lifeeee and you donttttt
Muahhahahaah i have friendsss a lot of friendss i go out on weekends and guess what im only 14 muahaha
Ooh i forgot , i kissed boys gnegnee u didnt muahahah aand you are 22 ******* year old ur gonna die in a few years oh and gess another thing aloneeeee.

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derycktaylor3 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (2 years, 10 months after post)

im am very sad and depressed also i have just ended a 9 year marriage a marriage that should have never been. Lies, no trust, jealousy, and in the end a very broken heart and the heart that bleeds is for my two beutiful children. everything that i have worked for and really came from nothing is gone… all i can think about is everything that is lost all of the pain and suffering to get to where we were and everything that we built from nothing i have a personal quote that i live by everyday and that is an everylasting teardrop. no matter what happens in life there will always be a teardrop in my eyes in heartach and in joy however in mostly in heartach. please someone talk to me before i go insane anyone please

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hey6 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (2 years, 11 months after post)

im sad too, im lesbian

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (3 years after post)

After reading these replies i feel even more sad now.

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evatsube offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 years, 3 months after post)

never feel sad. ask our lord jesus for help+ see a doc.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 years, 5 months after post)

I’m 20 and I’m absolutely miserable. I have a small limited number of friends who I barely hang out with, who each have more interesting friends of their own, so I’m never even in their list of priorities. Even when I had my girlfriends, I felt happy for the time I was with them, but sad during all the other hours of those days, and now I’m sad for every hour of the day, even though I don’t want another girlfriend atm.
I need to make more friends but I totally suck at it. Everyone has their own friendship groups and I’ve never been able to befriend someone well enough that they want to talk to me and hang out with me. I’m at uni which should be really fun but I think I’m probably the only one who just wants to repeat virginia tech.

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karmenbab offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 years, 8 months after post)

i’m so sad , becuase my frist love is bad !

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karmenbab offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 years, 8 months after post)

☆lilies☆ wrote:
thanks for the info hun. why do u think u are sad?

because , my first love is so sad

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Noneofyourbuissnesit offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 years, 3 months after post)

I’m sad. Very, very for so many reasons I couldn’t even name them all.
If you think that your life is horrible, try being me for a few hours.

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vixenfox offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 years, 6 months after post)

someone talk to me pleae

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cutedeafbo offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 years, 10 months after post)

kyle. you know this is not.you.how ever if you feel that way you need to take the bull by the horns so to speak,and change,you environment. don’t let people tell you you can’t do something.if you want something bad enough,your the only one that has the power to go after it.no one will do that for you…you just have to figure out what it is that you really want, and what you need to get there.once you know that. everything do should be geared towards that…. and don’t take know for an answer…. :-(

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cutedeafbo offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 years, 10 months after post)

I’m so sad gay alone

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