life help: im afraid of dying. - Help.com

Why are you so focused on death?

Just gives you more reason to enjoy life because you dont know how long you have. It is scary, I understand your fear, but instead of letting your fear get you down enjoy life to its fullest.

Death is a given; everyone dies. So rather than focusing on it, you accept that it will happen and start focusing on life. Live your life to the fullest and don’t panic.

some video give you extra lives… some people believe that get extra lives really. They call it reincarnation. Until you find a personal belief in death, you will be afraid of it. Regardless.. I really like what Marconius has to say!
Bright blessings~
Richard

I really like that quote:)

I can’t get them voices out of my head, “We’re all going to die.” Ahhh make it stop!

Yeah, anon…I know…it can be very frightening for sure…I think these same exact thoughts all the time…
Some friends think that I am flaky…
Others say “Deep”…
But I sometimes get so freaked out with it all…
Hmmm, after we die, I think that we go back to the place that we were before we were conceived…
I often wonder…ok there is my Mum in high school, walking down that hallway on her way to class…where was I then?
There’s Dad, just heading out, dreaming of getting to that Elvis concert..where is his little-baby-girl-to-be???
I wish that I had the answers….
But AFRAID to die….noooooo.
Because, just very recently, I lost my mum. And at the very last second of her beautiful life, she opened her eyes, and smiled such a smile…
It was apparent that she saw something….wonderful….what I do not know….
And will NOT know until it is my time…
So as I see on a plaque directly in front of me…
LIVE FOR TODAY FOR TOMORROW IS PROMISED TO NOONE..
And for me, I just know that at the end of the road there is a peace….no fear…
Hope that you find YOUR peace,ANON…
PEACE and LOVE
Mandy

If you really want to know the answers to your questions, and can be open-minded, go to mormon.org. They are all there.

Or christian.org, or muslim.org, or scientologist.org, or satanist.org, or baptist.org, or evangelical.org, or hindu.org, or atheist.org or any other religion.org. They all know, for certain exactly what happens when you die. Odd, though, their answers are all different.

Search them all, but pray to see which one is correct, perhaps you’ll just know.

The truth is, no one knows what happens when you die, we just know what happens to your body, not your conciousness. It’s all belief, and you should determine what, if anything, you believe on your own, without letting others suggest your path for you.

“To the well organized mind death is nothing but the next great adventure”
Albus Dumbledore

You seem very young. I think death is a long ways off for you. Try to focus on other things for awhile. I used to have this total obsession, out of fear, with death. I was so afraid of it, I became obsessed with it. It’s not a good palce to be.

Hugs. Turn to happier things.

Xeno has hit the nail on the head!

Death is the great unknown. And whether we like it or not, most of us fear the unknown most of all. So.. make death a known in your own mind, and it wont be so scary.
~Richard

“Death is the road to Awe.”
-The Fountain

You have nothing to fear from death - if your religious or not. We all have to face death at some point in the future. You can’t stop it by worrying that’s for sure. So let go of your worry and get on with you life. Worry and stress can assist in aging so knock it off - lol.

I know exactly what you are doing. I had the same thing happen to me a few years ago so I spoke to someone about it like you are now. And two things helped me…first Im a religious person so I just realized that for my religion I was being stupid for not following through. But the second thing that helped me was, iif there is nothing left, this is what happens to everyone. ANd I want to enjoy it all before I die just in case.

Yes, why are you soo concerned about death. It most likey that you won’t die for a long time, Just ingore idea of your death. The only thing that bothers me about death is the opportunities I will miss.

http://www.wayofthemaster.com/goodper…

~Neeva

Im very afraid i think ive become obsessive compulsive of the thought and fear of it.. I think so negative, and so afraid.. i get panic attacks so much by the thought.. How do i get this to stop

Why’s that, Candyshoplolipop?

took the words right from under me.

Every time I think about death, it scares me. I get this heavy feeling in my chest and if I think about it long enough, it hurts and I can hardly breathe. It’s easy to say live NOW or anything along those lines, but none of them seem to be any comfort. I fear death because I enjoy life. I like being alive. Its fun. And the thought of that fun ending is too unbearable. I guess this is the price we all pay for having a high intellect. Animals don’t seem to contemplate about this. Religion doesn’t comfort me. And I sometimes envy those faithful to their religions. It made me think that maybe this is why religion is invented. To ease the mind when death approaches. So we won’t go crazy when the time comes. Because when it comes, what’s the difference? I once asked myself if religion is a human invention meant to alleviate the fear of death. What do you think? Typing this now, I feel a lot better. I guess it does help to think that death is a great adventure. It’s different for every individual. I’m not really much help am I?

No worries. It seems like it helped you, right?

Meditate. And use sunscreen! Sunscreen takes all the worries away!