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how do you get a girl to stop smoking.
i have been seeing this girl for around 3 months now and we are perfect together, but the only thing i hate is that she smokes. how can i get her to stop???
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you can’t get her to stop she has to do it on her own! if you pressure her to stop that won’t work either! tell how you feel and hope for the best!
Yeah, leave her be. Maybe you should start smoking ;p
tell let you know it is soooooooooo hard to quit smoking but people can do it!
Hey, I’ve always been told if you’re gonna do anything do it properly and see it through to the end, no-one likes a quitter! hehe
LoL!! fourthings!! no body does like a quitter!
haha, yeah just drop a syringe fulla gear into the spot where she keeps her toothbrush, she’ll never notice! lol
Wow… is’nt this place called help.com?? You guys clearly don’t care. Or you wouldn’t be saying things like “get her addicted to heroine, even if it’s just a joke.
XeroFX_77: Lighten up, life needn’t always be serious or even appropriate.
The point is you can’t make her stop smoking. Explain to her that it bothers you, make sure she knows all the information about it (like why it is bad for her - but who doesn’t know these things these days?), offer to help her in any way you can, expose her to the different quitting options like the patch, or try to get her addicted to something else. But I don’t mean heroin or anything. I mean running, or some other more ‘positive addiction’.
In the end it’s up to her though.
You have to accept peoples good and bad sides. She is the only one that can decide when she wants to stop and you will just have to accept her as she is or move on if this is a trait that you can’t comprise over.
Do tell her how you feel but be prepared that she may not want to quit.
Or just ask her to chew gum before she comes near you…;)
I have to agree with XeroFX_77, I don’t think your answers were funny at all. I am suffering from emphysema now because of smoking. Not being able to breath IS NO JOKE! Tell your girlfriend all the bad stuff that comes along with smoking and how bad her breathe is and her hair stinks and it causes wrinkles, if she doesn’t quit then find someone else. There are a lot of girls that don’t smoke.
tell her how much you care about her and the reasons why you would love for her to stop. it worked for me. also a few months into a relationship you can say cigarettes or me… and she will be smart enough to do the right thing. if not your better off anyway.
I am in the same boat. I just met and started going out with this great girl, But my only problem is that she smokes a lot, and I am kind of a health freak. I just started going out with her a few weeks ago, so I am not at that stage where I can confront her and ask her to please stop.
Im having the same delema with my girl :(
Yeah i found this girl i really like….i got her aim, number and then i can feel something good betwwen us….and then im hanging out with her and she starts blazing with a group of friends…..i NEED ******* HELP!
ive been goin out with my bby for 10 months i love her so much tht i wouldnt be able to part but the thing is tht she smokes and ive asked her to cut down but i dont think it will work cause all her friends smoke and they will get her to smoke again i love u so much but i want her to either cut down to about 2 a day or none at all wot should i do
Tell her to smoke weed…gradually she’ll quit smoking cigs…no one has died smoking weed n its cancer free…welcome…peace :)
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