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My husband left me and my 5 yr old girl for another woman.

Currently filing for a for a divorce. When i confront him of having an affair, he admitted and even agree to give up our child and not to see her another more. He agreed to let me take over he share of the flat also agree on $1000 maintenance every month. He had moved out to stay together with that woman leaving me and my child. When i called he even put me on hold and talk to the woman in my present. I am now worried about my child’s future without a father. This happen only on 22 Aug and he moved to stay with that woman on 25 Aug. I would seek for help on what legal advise i can have in order to secure myself and my child future. He partnersship a Building Construction company. He told me if i dare to get anothing from the company he would make me sell our flat to split, making us nowhere to live.

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howardbrook offline Unverified User #
Dallas, TX, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I’m sorry :(
tough break.
Is he going to pay child support?

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no offline Unverified User #
London, H9, GB | 2 years, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I’m sorry to hear about that. Is $1000 ok for you to support your child? If not and you know he can afford more then explore legal action. If it is enough, then you might want to concentrate on taking care of your child and maybe a part-time job for you (for the extra income and to keep your mind off things). This man is obviously not good for you, but not all men are the same. You might want to try connecting with other men after some time, when you feel it’s the right time for you. They can help you feel good again and with your child as well. Good luck.

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nocorporateameric offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Fort Lee, NJ, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Look at the good side…

I am sorry to hear it, you are not alone, over 70% of American couples get divorced.
So for any comfort, your daughter will not be mocked or made to feel different at school, she will actually be part of the majority.

As for infidelity, the statistics is over 50% of American husbands cheat.
There is again a good part to this, due to the enormous amount of divorces and cheatings, women of America have formed clubs all around the country to offer comfort. I hear its good therapy to join one of these clubs.

The majority of the women I know are divorced and single mothers.
Last company I worked for there was a unbelievable 100% divorce rate.
Everyone who had been married was divorced.

Most of them are doing just fine, despite not getting any $$$ from the father.
Some even struggle through college while working and taking care of the kids (super moms).

Keep in mind also that in America 20% of daughters are molested at home by their fathers, and it doesn’t matter if the dad is educated, wealthy or otherwise. Miss America, tells a heart breaking story of her struggles…

Conclusion…
American women are strong and capable…
Admirable qualities… Good luck to you and your daughter.

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