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im flipping out on my boyfriend and dont really know why.

i talked to him last night to ask him about his feelings for me. something, a feeling i recently been having had me to question it. sometime in our conversation he says he doesnt want to mess it up with me but he couldnt explain how. he has the two newborns on the way, he’s about to move in his new place this weekend, he has all this money to come up with. i try to not be part of his problems but my feelings are more stronger than his and i feel most of the time he is draggin me along. i offered to leave, but he wants me to wait on him.i think that he is being selfish, or is he…some advice please!!!

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AnOlderOne offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

I am not sure quite what the problem is. If he has children on the way then he needs to be responsible and do his part in taking care of them. Are you afraid he is going to get back with the mother or something?

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oriana_griffi offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (4 hours, 33 minutes after post)

one of them he really dnt have a problem with they were nver i a relationship. the other i am not really worried about.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (4 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Well if he has trouble staying in a commited relationship then that is something you have to recognized and decide if you can deal with. If you want a commitment then maybe this is not the guy for you. If you can wait on him or risk his finding someone else and not staying commited to you then stay with him. You have to decide what you want to do. Some can “wait”, some need a commitment, and some just get uncomfortable and think there is something better out there. What is it that you want?

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