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I need help, my family needs help.
During college I met a female sophomore year of college. There was nothing I wouldn’t do for her. I use to spend my days thinking what can I do to make her feel special. Eventually she ended up pregnant. I wanted her to stay with me but she chose otherwise and was sent to a group home for pregnant girls. For lack of a better word my baby mama lived in a group home while she was in college. Ok moving along. I went back to my home town and she went to the pregnant home. Accepting the responsibility of being a father and taking care of my family I joined the military. A couple of months my baby mama had given me a call told me she was about to go into labor. I didn’t have a car so I talked the greyhound to the city of her group home, ran from the greyhound station all the way to the hospital to see that we had a little girl. When I held her I cryed because I’ve never seen anything so beautiful. Again my baby mama decided to go into some kind of foster care then to allow me to take care of everything. Afterwards I went to training at Ft. Knox and then I had more training at Ft. Lee. After that I went to visit and later re enrolled in school. while there I was paying my baby mama’s phone bill, rent, utilities, etc and I cooked for her. She fell very short because she wouldn’t take care of or daughter. Basically our baby would not eat unless I fed her because my baby mama was lazy. Enventually dfacs got involved and gave me temporary custody of our daughter. And our baby girl stayed with daddy. My baby mama found another place and roomed with a dude she barely knew and started subleasing from him. He basically moved out left her high and dry and basically it was me to the rescue. Now for a basic overview my baby mam was homeless for a while but I made sure she would have hot food to eat and a place to stay. When I got a new place I added her to the lease. And basically again I was paying all the bills and taking care of our daughter and still in “Love” with her mother. I had to go to special training in Germany for the military and right before I left she told me, we were through. She also told me she was tired of being the bad guy and I told her to be the good guy then do what you say, help take care of our daughter. Little did I know that when I added her to the lease that my temporary custody ended. Two months after I got back from Germany I got orders to go Baghdad, Iraq in the next 6 months. Magically be an act of God I met an angel when I got stationed in Mississippi before I went to Iraq and I married my angel. ok now to zoom foward. During leave from my tour from Iraq I visited my baby girl and found out that my baby mama had not been taking care of her, or even paying rent, and when I looked in public records I found out after I been in Iraq for a couple of months she left our baby girl alone in the downtown area for four hours my baby girl was three years old. During the whole time I was in Iraq she would not let me know what was going on with our daughter. So when I went on leave I dropped a lot of money on a lawyer to get custody of her because of all this money I dropped me and my angel had a courthouse wedding. When I got back from Iraq my wife was moved in to our new house and it was decorated painted and so on. They were waiting on me to come home first so we can close on the house.it has been nearly six months and we still have not closed on the house because I have been unable to find employment. It seems like no one wants to hire an Iraqi freedom vet. Countless applications and search engines, monster, careerbuilder and so on. No one would hire me. The builder for the house I’m in has filed bankrupt and basically I have less then a month to find a job good enough to close on our house and on top of that my wife (the angel) is 23 weeks pregnant. The vet sites can not help me because I do not have 30% disability at least. If anyone can help please do and if you feel like there is nothing that you can do pray for me and my family. —-
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