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alright so im falling for this girl and im trying to

debate wether i should move to where she is at the end of my lease i mean it would be a big thing for me to leave my friends family and my job here but i really want to be with her any advice?

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Arcturus offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Your post is tagged ‘Domestic sheep’. Subtle?

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jefwell changed the tags on this post: they were "friends, Domestic sheep, Debate, Family, girl, Big Thing, Falling, Big, job, advice" 2 years, 3 months ago.

jefwell offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

lol i didnt even realize that thnks

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Go for it. A life without risks is not life at all. You can always move back. Put some pazaaz in your world. She just might be the one worth the effort.

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jefwell offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

thanks i think im gonna go for it your right i have nothing to lose except losing the wondering of what could have been.

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Exactly! Good luck with it.

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meluvzmark offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
CA, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (12 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Wow, I wish someone loved me enough to drop everything and live life with me in a new place…I hope to hear what happens…good luck man…life is short, live without regret!

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jefwell offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (19 hours, 45 minutes after post)

lol mel someday you will find someone i talked to her about it last night and i said i needed a place to stay and she said i could move in with her but we would need to get a two bedroom and i was like what anyways shes like i would like the extra space we would be in the same room lol im so excited to move there with her.

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rgustafson offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

Will you go tto think is this girl wroth moveing away from ur job ur family and friends? If so then yyou should go for it. But you got to think about what could happean like might not be the girl of ur dreams might not be the girl you really think she is You Just got to knwo down in you heart that you reall ywent to be with her if you know this for sure then i would go head and move down there where she lives you never knwo this might be the best thing you will ever do in ur life because again she could be that one girl fo ryou.

good luck

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jefwell offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

everytime i talk to her i get a huge smile and i have no worries in the world is this the feeling your talking about

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rgustafson offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

ok then good i think she is the one for you go out

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jefwell offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

awesome i already started looking fo jobs down there and i will get paid way more than in my current position i will get a 2 dollar raise with the experience i have if i move so i get to be close to her and a better job i make 12.84 now and i will start at 14.00 an hour or if i want salary 40 thousand a year

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rgustafson offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

kool i think u get the best out of life and u are being the change you went to see in the world good job

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jefwell offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

i just saw that im helping you with your post also lol

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rgustafson offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

yep and thanks ttyl thanks fo rall ur help

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

Jefwell . . . I am SO happy and SO excited for you. yea … have fun.

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jefwell offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

thanks dietcoke

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rgustafson offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 days, 11 hours after post)

so are u going to do it?????????? I would but no matter what u do please have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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jefwell offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 days, 15 hours after post)

yes im going to do it :)

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rgustafson offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 days, 15 hours after post)

thats gd

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jefwell offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 days, 19 hours after post)

i gt a job down there already waiting for me pays 700 to 1200 a week

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rgustafson offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (4 days, 16 hours after post)

kool

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