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Ok so there’s this girl that i like.

I’ve liked her for two years know, and i felt like i’ve done everything worng to get to know her as a friend. At first, when i met her she was nice to me, and we talked on msn alot, but not much in real life. So I continued talking to her on msn, and I started telling her how smart and pretty she was and stuff like that. Then one day my friend told that this girl was mad at me beacuse I would always talk to her on msn, but not in real life. So, I tried to take his advice and talk to her in real life. That didn’t work so well. I was to afraid to talk to her, and when i built up the courage to talk to her, i only mummbled out a few words. So, for some reason I thought I could get somwhere if i talked to her on msn. So then I kept talking to her on msn and other chat sites. She would then slowly ignore me, by not returning my messages. Then this summer I started to annoy her by talking to her so much and saying that i wish i could have gotten to know her better, partly beacuse of her new boyfriend. So then I din’t talk to her for two weeks and tried to talk to her on this chat site after the two weeks had passed. I asked her how things were going and what classes she had for school. She didn’t respond and deleted my post. I still want to be friends with this girl, what should i do?

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ƒ(x)=healberry³ offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Bellflower, CA, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I say that you should give her some space, before you seem like a creepy stalker. Let her come back to you when she feels comfortable enough.

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my NAME is DANI offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Elliott Heads, 04, AU | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

yeah, let her think about stuff.

you have been around her 24/7 so give her some space.

she should come back to you for your friendship. and if that happens. just come stright up about how you feel before you start looking like a freak.

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Chullora, 02, AU | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

give her sum space. after like a month or 2, see if she ta;ks 2 u. if not, try another month. if she does not talk 2 u, then mabey shes not the gerl 4 u. i no its hard 2 change ur feelings 4 another person, but mabey shes just scared and u need to give it like a yaer or sumthing

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US | 2 years, 3 months ago (11 hours, 40 minutes after post)

leae her alone and let her be, if she wants to ignore you then i dont think she’s really interrested. eh there’s many fish in the sea ;)

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