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Hello everyone,

Hope is well! me not so much, confused about this life, I wake up confused dont want to even get up, life can be wonderful at least I was told and felt it before here i am 44 with two beautiful children and a hubby that is Always conplianing about our bills he is on Social security and doing ebay, really i dont know what to tell him anymore, he wakes up at 2pm and loves to get in the car and go shop for product trying to keep us a float, I met him 6 years ago and gave all my saving to him my husband pass away after being married 21 years and build a life with my first husband, it is weird and different starting over with another man especially when he complians alot, and looks for something wrong all the time. I am notlooking for i am sorry for you, i dont know what i am looking for maybe some answer to how to be more movotived in this world I have choosen to live in, i wish he was more positive with himself and work a 9 to 5 job or get his own business, I cant keep hearing him say I dont want this life now with me now because of money. it is crazy. honestly i just want our situtation to end if he cant be happy and content with himself. his children our not benefiting at all. very depressed trying to get out of being so depress………….make any sense…probally not if i dont understand then how is anyone esle going to…..writing thoughts down do help though

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WantMore offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

Are you working as well?

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (8 hours, 4 minutes after post)

being married for 21 years and everything was working well,then starting all over with youre second man ,dont compare the first with the second, you live now and most probably he is trying his heart out there, to get somewhere,you must have forgotten ,it wansn’t easy the first time ,so hang in there, sometimes life is like a chicken ladder from top to bottom full of s****t just give it more time..may the force be with you…

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jpkpmo offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Dayton, OH, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (23 hours, 46 minutes after post)

LOL, thank you slimline, you put a smilie on my face. I will keep that into consideration, I dont want him to think I am comparing him with my first. I would not want that either.

WantMore, no I am not working, I miss work, worked all my life thurs far, the work here at home is rewarding and big task, we have a 4 year old and a 8 month. Lots of fun, I just need to relax. I want to help my husband and take some of the financial burdens off his shoulders, but we think with me staying at home is the best all the way around. If I could work from home that would be great!! I see all these Work from Home schemes, it just is not real. Hey that is a question to ask people out here!

QUESTION: Does anyone know of a Work at Home program that is for fact a real source of product or service and income???

I love your picture, very beatuiful, and I bet you are inside and out. Thank you for the comment. Why do you ask?

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WantMore offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Because his stress seems to have to do with money. There are many jobsyou can do at home, though it is hard to break into them.

Thank you for your nice words…

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

since my wife learned the computer she makes herself extra money on ebay about 100 bucks a week she has her own computer and it makes her happy,she goes to auctions garage sales wherever to buy some stuff for ebay ,but that would not feed a whole family but it would help….

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maypo3 offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
East Hartford, CT, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (4 days, 8 hours after post)

Ya maybe what you are looking for can be found in a DVD which I would love for you to purchase. It is called “The Secret” and if you watch it a couple of times then you will actually understand. This dvd is very powerful and please allow yourself to follow its teachings. I have found it to change my life and give it purpose and direction, maybe it can do the same for you!

If you are looking to pull yourself out of slump then might I also suggest another venue. Perhaps you could also benefit from visiting my website and educating yourself about other aspects of your life. Go to www.thegreatproduct.com/Nulife and watch and learn. God bless.

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