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Ack! That’s really weird. If you live together though, he can’t just completely avoid you all together. Could you try writing him a letter asking him, why he wants to break up?
What a jerk…..If you start dateing or talking to someone else he will call you and get jealous and be like i was you back im so dumb!! thats how it allways goes I swear.
He don’t live with me, he just had a key to my house. I was planning on asking him to move in sometime soon. Wow, what a day.
wel at least e said e stil want 2 b freinds!!!!
dat counts as sumting rite?!?!?
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:( my ex (of almost two years at the time) met me on the porch before we split and told me I had two weeks to move—so, eh, it could be worse.
You’re on your own, doin’ your own thing, you can so do it—with or without him.
I’d say wait a bit. Things will flesh themselves out and make the situation more apparent if you wait and not jump to a hasty conclusion… People can be wierd, and you never know what’s going on in his head. Trust me, just give it a week or so, then approach him about it.
sometimes things just dont work out and you wouldnt want to be with someone who doesnt love you. I know its hard to understand how someone could do this to you but it happens and sometimes you just have to let go and move on as hard as it may seem, you can do it!!!
I’m so sorry your hurting right now. It sounds like to me (although I don’t know everything) that he is just ready for a new chapter in his life. If he really loves you he will come back on his own. Act cool about it when you call, don’t lie but try and not beg him to come back to you. Maybe he just needs a break to step back and think. If you really love him you will let him go because you want him to be happy. it sucks. Cry and be upset for as long as you need then pick yourself up off the ground and get back out there! Any guy would be lucky to date you I’m sure.
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Well, we got back together last Monday. He told me that he had thought about me all the time and missed me. He also said that he has never felt this way about someone before. So yeah we are back together and happy. Yay :)
girl i wouldnt get your hopes up about 0him stayin wit u too long trust me i was in a 4 year relationship wit a guy and he broke up wit me all of the sudden saying that he didnt love me anymore.all im saying is dont wear your heart on your sleave if you know its gonna get torn off in the long run you know what i mean?
I was wondering if you two are still together? My boyfriend and I just broke up and I want him back. Your story gives me hope. But did it last? Are you happy? Did you talk before you got back together?
Yeah we are back together and we are doing good now and I am happy. Um it is actually sad what happened. After he left the note at my house I tried calling and talking to him for like a week. It comes to find out the he went to Indiana for a death in the family. He came back an got stranded in Kentucky and gave me a call a week and a half after we broke up. He said the he wanted to meet one night with his friends. I agreed because we decided to be friends. It comes to find out that after we hung out with his friends, we wanted to come and stay at my house. I agreed and then on the way home he told me that he had thought about me for the whole time and that he had never felt this way about someone before (This surprised me because he is one of those guys that once he makes up his mind on something, he doesn’t change his mind again). And then he asked if I wanted to go back out. I told him as long as he treats me the way I deserve to be treated, he said he would, and now we are back together.
It is hard when you all first break up, especially when it is unexpected. You just have to be strong and remember that there are other guys out there. Don’t try and do anything to quickly. I know that you loved him and everything but step back and think, is this the right thing for you? Can you picture you spending the rest of your life together? You have to remember that you are not the only one in the relationship. If it is meant for ya’ll to be together it will happen one day or another. Just live your life and have fun. “Just Be Free”
My boyfriend and I got back together. I am so happy! He finally called and we are going to try. I hope I do not screw this up with my neurotic actions. Thanks for the hope!
I am glad to hear that ya’ll got back together!!! I wish you all the best of luck.
Well you two are pretty lucky that you got your men back, and mine wants me back too, but i dont know what to do.Can you guys give me any suggestions?
You have to decide if it is what you really want. I mean, I know that you loved him and everything, but does he treat you the way you want to be treated? Can you picture yourself with him for the rest of your life? Or were you just good friend that happened to be dating? If you have any doubts about your relationship then don’t let him come back just yet. Enjoy you time with yourself, and if it is meant to be then it will happen. Just remember to do what is the very best for yourself!!
All I know is how my relationship is going since we got back together….and that is great! We realized how much we mean to eachother and we really appreciate our relationship. The first week was a little rocky and uncomfortable but I just sat back and waited till he was ready to open up and communicate with me what he was feeling and I respected what he had to say. I truelly care for him and am willing to accept my flaws and work on them as is he and we are going to do it together. I am so happy!!!
thank you for your help!=)
Well, I am sad to say that we have split up again. I think it is best for us at this point and time, with me being in school and everything. He was really really nice about it this time and even sat there and hugged me while I cried. We are still going to be friends and hang out and stuff and see where that takes us again. We may end up back together or we may not we will see where life takes us.
rocky relationship, becareful with the whole breaking up and getting back together thing
How are you doing now? Are you two friends?
I am doing great now. We still hang out about once a week or so. He does his think and I do my thing and its whats right at the current moment. I have a new “interest” lol with a guy in once of my class that is really nice. Read my next to last post and it will go into detail if ya want it.
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