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my life is to much i have no one to talk to and i think

it would be better for my children if they didnt have to look at there depressed mother anymore. i love them dearly but i listen day in day out to others but who’s there for me i just want to sleep and never awaken im 25 and a nobody and cant stand the pain inside anymore

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*millie* offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

talk to me. What’s going on? How can I help?

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Gods Ga Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Homerville, GA, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Wait justthink you are a mom your children need you so waht is so bad that yo would go to this?

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Mortimer Common, K7, GB | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

i have the same feelings, i have had them for a long time and have even tryed to end it all. i decided today that i have to get help. i will be seeing the doc on Monday. i can only ask you to go and talk to your doc and get some help. you are loved even though you dont know it yet. we are all here to help one and other.

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Brighton, P6, GB | 2 years, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Hi im emma and im 25 to, when i read your post it was like i was reading how i feel, i am the same as you my life is to much i have a child and i cant cope anymore i work a couple of hours as well and i feel like this is it i cant take anymore, i love my family but i feel they would be better off without me, i just want to fall asleep and never wake up. every day i think about walking out the door and never coming home and today i think im going to do it. somthing needs to change or i’m going to go insane.
i wish i could be there for you now to give you a hug because i know how alone and desperate you feel, if you can go to your gp do it, hang on in there. emma x

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

well… you may not want to hear this… I am not like you at all. I have 3 children… have plenty of my own issues; relationships, money… etc. I help dozens of people daily… it’s what I do, and I’ve never wanted to die.

“Changing your life is as easy as changeing your mind”. It true. I know you can’t see that now, and you may even resent me for saying it… but its true.

I would very much like to listen to you… to help you if I can. I’ll send you a free e-copy of my book of you wish… http://www.lulu.com/content/862745 just email me at richard dot hills at wamu dot net. Other than that give me a shout anytime you want.
Bright blessings~
Richard

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (40 minutes after post)

Hugs honey. Big, BIG hugs. Look for counseling in your area. Maybe you can find a professional to talk to? and they may be able to find a group therapy for women just like you. Depressed Mothers or something. It helps to have some of your peers to help you through hard times.

I suffer from depression too and it is horrible when you just want to sleep and never wake up. I feel that way too. A lot. But I’m seeing a psychiatrist and I have a few friends I can talk to and that makes those days a little more bearable!

And if it ever gets to that point, use the HelpBot’s adive and call the suicide prevention line. There is no shame in it. I’ve called it before when I had a noose all made up in my basement. They are kind and can help you relax a little and seek help.

Hugs again. Hugs, hugs, hugs, HUGS!!

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irishtweety offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Mountjoy, 07, IE | 2 years, 3 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Sounds like you’re having a really tough time… BUt imagine your childrens pain & hurt if anything were to happen to you; they would be devastated without their Mom…
Do you have family closeby or someone you can talk to?

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aloth offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
CA | 2 years, 3 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Please talk to someone, a friend, a family member. I went through depression too
in my early 20’s…remember its not just about you..you have family and friends around you that love you. You have your children that should mean the world to you!
You may need medical help..please see a doctor. You are young and a beautiful person..can can give so much to your children..don’t give up!

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GB | 2 years, 3 months ago (57 minutes after post)

i cant believe so many feel the same.Im in the same boat and split with my boyf in a very ugly way yesterday. We will just do the best we can at any given time and stop beating ourselves with guilt. Anti depressant sound like a good idea 2.yeah the kids do deserve better but if we keep trying it will count for something. good luck girls be kind to yourselves xx

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Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 hours, 12 minutes after post)

A nobody? you are a mother to precious children. You are their world, and they should be yours. I know you are depressed. I am 26 and also suffering from depression. I do not have any children, but understand your feelings. Please think about how drastically altered your children’s lives would be without you in it. Have you seen anyone professional? it helps. Or are there any support groups in your area you could go to?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Some churches (some are members only - others help anybody, member or not) and some YWCA’s have “Mother’s Day Outs” precisely for this situation.

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graceconnie0 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Corinna, ME, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (11 hours, 50 minutes after post)

My aunt ended her life with three childern. She took sleeping pills. Her husband was a sleezeball, and the children were carted off and left desolate. Their lives never recovered. I don’t care what you problems are, the only one that will care for those childern is you. They are your reason for breathing on this earth if nothing else.

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kaycnj3 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (16 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Start a journal, it helps

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Calgary, AB, CA | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

i hope you find someone soon

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pamark offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Rogers, AR, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

You need to think of the children here, if you think they are tired of their depressed mom, what do you think they would feel if you did not wake up?? They probably already think you are sad because of them, and if you didn’t wake up they would think it was because of them. You need to get help for your children by seeing someone that can help you. Blessings to you.

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twistedangel61 offline Unverified User #
AU | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 weeks, 6 days after post)

hey girl, i know exactly where u are coming from, please get in contact with me and i think maybe we may be able to help each other out!!!
i have two chidren myself and im 24 and i feel or felt the same way u did… get in contact with me

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