girl help: Height In a relationship… - Help.com

Its not other people you should ask , its yourself, if you don’t mind then nothing else matters.
If he is taller, shorter there is no difference , the only difference is in your mind.
So ask yourself, does it bother you?

If you want to be with someone love has no barriers, tall, short, fat, thin, anything, if you love someone you love them

height shouldn’t be an issue but if you’re asking this it’s because it’s an issue for YOU. and if you aren’t comfortable with the height difference it will always be in the back of your mind.

The outside doesn’t matter. If anyone thinks it matters, then they DON’T matter.

Mayb you need to focus more on that then. If you worry what others think about you then you will find that what others think wil start to control what you do and who you are.
Be an indevidual, if your not harming anyone then do what you think is best.

What others think shouldn’t matter, live for yourself and what makes you happy. You can bet those people you are worrying about are not busy getting worried about you. They are just getting on with their lives.

Hmm that sounded a bit horrible didn’t it. I didn’t mean it in a horrible way. Tough love and all that

i have a question for you. how would you feel if he broke it off because you’re to tall. i’m sure it would hurt you and hurt your confidence, well it would do the same to him. If you want to brake it off don’t make it about height. and what the people around shouldn’t matter in the end it only matters if you make each other happy

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I’m 5′11″ and my boyfriend is like 5′8″ and we are as happy as can be together. we are so in love with eachother the hight thing never even was an issue. it is perfectly ok to be taller than your boyfriend! :)

I think it’s kind of sexy. You’ll look sort of like a model with her beau out on the town. That’s what I pictured when I read your post, anyway. Ever see those pictures of the models and their shorter boyfriends? I guess you could say it’s kind of vogue. :P

Nah it’s cool.
I knew a girl who got mistaken for her boyfriend’s babysitter.
lol but they were still happy.
I’m 5 foot about and I don’t intend to keep growing.
So I must admit when I DO go with guys shorter than me, it’s kinda awkward at first.
But then you have to realize, who cares?!

Love knows no height.

i doesnt matter, if your still in school then maby ur guy will grow some (im 13 going to be 14 and when i stop growing ill be aroung 6′ 5′’)

I think that you have a problem. Most people have this problem. And it involves you needing reassurance from others about who you are and what you look like. Because its your height (just like if you looked chinese, or albino, etc) there is not alot you can really do about it (like cutting your legs or the like). You need to learn to love who you are and what you have. It is hard to not be affected by the media and our programming of what beautiful, pretty, normal, etc is. Part of the cure for this is realizing that what others think is important but not half as important as what you think and how you feel. The main thing is to figure out what type of person you are:
are you a pig, a sheep, or a wolf.