life help: My boyfriend and I bought a house with my parents. - Help.com

I’ve never been in a situation like this before, but it looks like you have a large decision to make. You have to decide what’s more important: your privacy or saving money. Another thing to consider is what your parents would think of this. If you just bought the house 3 months ago, how would your parents feel about you leaving just like that? Normally I would say “who will be in your life longer, your boyfriend or your parents” but since you lived with him a year in an apartment, it sounds like he could be there for a while. Measure how much your boyfriend wants to move out against how much your parents what you there. If your boyfriend would be ok with staying a year, go for it if you’re up to it. It could depend on how moving out would affect your relationship with your parents and how high you want to keep that relationship.

D’oh.
Is your Mom up to selling the house also? It sounds like a good plan to me. I can’t think of anything better.

How is the house deeded? And do you want to be on good terms with your parents anytime soon?

I wish you would have come here before you bought that house and asked if it was a good idea because I would have asked if you were ******* insane!? ~smiles~.

I don’t know the truth. I only can assume what little you have told me is true, and I believe lack of privacy would certainly be an issue ~cringes~, so I don’t doubt that ~smiles~.

You need to talk to them and find out how you can reconcile this, or find a way to live with each other. It sounds like the idea was a good one. It would give you guys some disposable/savings income and help your parents out. Unfortunately it has become a nightmare of obtrusive tresspasse upon your privacy.

The housing market is going to be flooded with houses from people who lost their *****. This will make houses considerably cheaper than normal, so you puting the house on the market next year will only cause you to lose money ~sighs~.

You might have to wait it out for a extra year or two, which sounds like it will suck, so you have better resolve this before the resentments turn into hate and people start doing stupid stuff they will regret for life ~smiles~.

Well, now you just need to buy a door ~smiles~.

Like that is any of your business Foto ~laughs~. You worry about yourself more and others less and your life will be much better ~smiles~.

~chuckles~ yeah but she wasn’t asking for your relationship advice. She was asking about her house, if she wanted help with her personal life/relationship I am sure that is what she would have asked about ~chuckles~.

Yep you messed up. At least you’ve learned from this. When you are an adult you basically run your own household and your parents do not dictate it. They raised you and now it is time for them to realize that you are an adult. Your parents have to respect that and let you make your own decisions and learn from them and I guess this is one of those decisions. But yeah, sell the house or let someone get off of the mortgage.

Ok well enjoy your self righteousness I hope it works well for you ~smiles~

I’ve been married for 15 years. It is obvious you dislike me for whatever reason you have decided within your soul/mind ~smiles~, but I haven’t lost an ounce of sleep over your thoughts ~smiles~.

I think being married for 15 years does give me the right to talk about how to deal with marriage, and yes I love to have the last word, at least you go that much right ~smiles~.

Ok now you can tell me how ****** up I am ~smiles~. I’ll unsubscribe to this post ~smiles~

Maybe because I am always happy, and you life sucks? ~smiles~ Hence the reason I smile! Cause life is good!

Oh I didn’t realize it before, but you jealous. How cute ~smiles~. It must really suck that I have been all over the world and have had a very full life. I know how hard it is to believe someone else when you yourself haven’t done the things I have done.

I have a lot to offer to this site, but apparently all you have to offer is meaness, and you will pay for that someday ~smiles~.

I guess I could use my knowledge somewhere else, but no matter where you go you always have some griefer like yourself trying to put their pain and suffering upon others ~smiles~.

The fact that you use large words and seemingly have an extensive vocabulary doesn’t make you smart or wise ~chuckles~. Because all your are doing is overcomplicating your superficial sedimentalities creating indiscinant resolutions for yourself ~smiles~.

Does your unhappiness and hate ever subside, or is it fueled solely by your inability to have a meaningful life? ~smiles~.

My address is 6321 E. 4th Apt. 28 Spokane, WA 99212. Come and visit me ~smiles~.

Oh also, and I am sure foto would agree with me on this one: Anonymous people suck! ~chuckles~

LOL I don’t care if he is so rich and so worldly he can be here in 6 hours. I love that!

First, astronauts are getting drunk…now their girlfriends are trying to kill their fiances and wearing diapers to drive the distance! Crazy astronauts ~chuckles~