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just talk to her about what you are feeling and see what becomes of it.

Step it up to her. Life’s too short and you’ll regret not having seized an opportunity when you had it.

if she doesn’t feel the same way, you might get hurt but that’ll pass.

:p I definitely would not follow fraggedmeme’s advice …

Share with her what you’ve shares in this post… Talk to her about it…

frag frag frag…. honey no clubbing either!!

Frag, I leave for a few minutes and your right back to violence, what are we going to do with you?!

she likes you, because that is what i do with this guy i like. go for it boy!

yep go talk to her, she’ll be cool about it if you are. Good luck!!

Here’s the thing. Maybe you should talk to her, but that doesn’t automatically mean you should just do it.

If you are too nervous and strange about it, you will come off awkward, and you won’t have been yourself.

The difficulty is that the situation is nerve wracking. Start it off as casually as possible, and don’t make any long speech about it. When you make a long speech about it, they get the idea about half-way through the speech and then they just want you to spit it out and the rest of your speech is anti-climatic. Then you can be thrown because you thought you had a great speech, and once the plan goes differently than you believed it would, it could shake your confidence.

So try and be casual and use few words to talk to her. If it goes well she should make you feel more relaxed by her reaction. Then you can expound on your feelings with parts of the speech a little at a time as the conversation goes forward.

Well it sounds like it worked out in the 2nd best possible method. Even though it wasn’t perfect, you are still in a better place than you were. That’s great. Congrats for being so brave, and doing it.

come right out and tell her how you feel!!!