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i hope things work out for you.

Wait a tiny bit.
Chances are you’re going to start taking the birth control pill at some point, which does help with breast growth a little bit.

I wouldn’t mess with anything else until that point, so save your money ;)

Not so sure about the pills… I honestly dont think they really work and I would seriously question the natural bit. Natural is how you are… Have you stopped developing yet?

Breasts come in all different shapes and sizes, I am sure you are lovely just they way you are and maybe thats a better answer to stopping worrying being bigger and learn to appreciate yourself just the way you are.

Birth control pills do work, I watched my gf’s breasts get bigger over the course of say 4-6 months, she did put on weight all over though and has been verry, verry moody and difficult, and yes you’re only 17 so give it till you’re 21 at least, birth control is good for your skin also and helps regulate your period, essesntially it minics pregnancy.
Under normal circumstances I would say to avoid birth control because they change your personality, it’s happend to 2 gf’s I’ve had, but I know how much breast’s man to a woman so…

lol *mean, bit of a feruedian slip eh? lol

LOL at the slip….Poster said natural pills… they have all sorts of homeopathic pills they say help…. tests say they dont. You may get some change with the birth control pills but they do have some side effects.. weight gain and other things as well. A Dr can give you the right information on that.

Embrace the beauty you have. Cleavage isn’t everything.

If you are worried that you will not grow more naturally, ask your doctor. If you haven’t fully developed your body yet (and he/she would be able to test that) you probably don’t want to use any pills or other means to grow breasts that mess with your hormones: a lot of processes in your body are connected in ways that we don’t fully understand yet and you might harm part of your overall development. If you are fully developed, the doctor could also advice you whether there are any pills available that actually work and are safe to use. See where you stand before you start worrying about getting money to do something about it: you may not need to do anything at all.

I think you should be proud to be who you are, and be proud of being different. Everyone is beautitful in their own special ways. I may have breasts but I’m overweight, so there is ugliness in everyone somewhere on their body, but don’t let what I just said apply to your chest, everyone’s chest is unique and beautiful. I really hope you are able to feel better about yourself. I hate to see girls suffer in this way b/c of the media and b/c the way the media portrays it as “this is what boys want” and shows a woman with huge breasts running on a beach.

:)

anothernikki wrote:
Embrace the beauty you have. Cleavage isn’t everything.

I agree! I understand not liking things about yourself. We tend to fixate on one thing about ourselves to hate when in reality it is such a minor thing and no one else cares.

Many of my guys friends actually like a smaller chest. In fact, several of them think of it like I think of body building…unless you are natural and proportionate, it is a total turn off.

Also, if it really is cleavage you are looking for, your breasts can still be big, just set further apart. If this is the case you can buy bras that will move them closer together to create the cleavage. Also, exercise will firm them and give them a good appearance.

Thank you stars, that’s what I was getting at. After I posted me reply, I hoped it didn’t sound too harsh. As long as you are beauitful on the inside it will radiate outside. Besides, if someone will only be your friend or only date you because you have nice cleavage, they’re not worth you time. :) hugs honey