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picture theres a new girl you like at school and you

wanted to kick off a convo with her yet too unsure to start one up and everyone else seems to like her - what’d u do? As thats kinda my position except also im generally a very very very quiet person :( Seriously - i could go without saying a word a whole day and think nothing of it. =\

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josephpatrickdohert offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

im sorry bud, the thing about it is that you will have to make your own luck. If you never talk at school then you must wait until you are in your own enviroment. Leavin school or a weekend. I had to learn that I couldn’t have what I wanted because I let my chances pass. God dont do that. Take that oppertunity and dont dely. It cant go that bad.

Joe
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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 3 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

If this girl is new there’s no reason why you can’t go up to her and just ask about where’s she’s from. Since she’s new, she won’t think it weird that school veterans will ask about her. Do you have any classes in common or reason to be hanging out in the same room with her? You should take the opportunity to just talk to her as a way to get to know her.

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Eddy offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 3 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

very true :) but i have so little confidence :| and its like… shes always chattin to someone or other.

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 3 years, 2 months ago (3 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Well, if you feel a bit ackward about breaking into a conversation there are a couple of other options. You’ve described yourself as artistic, right? If you are any good, sit yourself nearby where she can see you. Draw something elaborate and artsy. If she likes artistic guys she’ll notice and maybe come close enough to comment on it. It might be the icebreaker that starts a conversation. The downside is that this is a pretty slow and passive method of introducing yourself, but there’s also little risk of embarassment for you.

Of course there are other strategies. Anyone else out there have ideas for Eddy?

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yay_bubbles offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Cedar Falls, IA, US | 3 years, 2 months ago (5 hours, 16 minutes after post)

if you really want to know her just go up to her and start talking to her. i know that it is hard to go up to somebody when they are talking to somebody else. i know somebody that is really quiet but he will still go up to somebody and talk to them because he doesnt care what will happen. if you do care i know how you feel. just try and get some courage and walk up to her and talk to her.

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