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Ok so there’s this girl right?
I met her at work and we didn’t really talk much at first. Things went real slow for a while and finally we got comfortable enough to talk–typical right. Anyway now we’re close enough that I feel like I can talk to her about anything. She’s gorgeous and smart and funny and pretty much plain amazing. The thing is… the entire time I’ve known her, she’s had a boyfriend… I didn’t find that out until recently. Why do you think she hasn’t EVER mentioned him? I feel kind of pathetic posting this but I just can’t figure it out. We text each other regularly and I know that we’re just friends but part of me wants to be more but I don’t want to put her in the position to choose. I’d much rather have her in my life as a friend than not in it at all…even though I can’t stop thinking about her. Basically my question is, how can I see past me wanting to be with her and continue our relationship as merely friends?
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