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The girl I like is going out with another guy, and he’s one of my friends. Well, he’s kinda my friend but not really…Anyway, it’s just the fourth day of school for me, and on the first day I developed a huge crush on her. I’ve always thought she was pretty but I never liked her before…The thing is that my girlfriend just broke up with me but says she still likes me and I’m not sure if I like her back…I saw my ex talking with the girl I like and found that my ex is still prettier than the other girl…Execpt that I always think about the first girl. Is this something normal thats something like, “I just got broken up with and I need someone to fill the space”, or what? And I don’t know how to even make good friends with the first girl…Help please!

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dungeonmunky offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Mission, BC, CA | 2 years, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I’d say try and work things out with your ex girlfriend, figure out why she left you if she still likes you. As for the one you have a crush on…I’m afraid to say she’s off limits at the moment. Maybe she’ll be available later. Just make friends with her. That’s something I can’t help with as I’m bad at it myself. If you stay friends with your ex then maybe you’ll hang out some time and become closer.

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Speed8ump offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Durham, NC, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Well, the “I just got dumped and want to fill the void” thing is called a rebound relationship. Common enough and almost never a good idea. Plus there are songs about jonesing for your friend’s girl. Also a bad plan. In any case, you should talk to your ex and try to figure out why you aren’t together anymore. A little introspection shouldn’t hurt. Maybe try being single for a while…

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ixluvxboy offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Hanapepe, HI, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 hours, 53 minutes after post)

well give your ex another chance

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Virginia Beach, VA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Well, my ex told me she liked me she just didn’t want a boyfriend right now, but I think I got everything worked out anyway. Thanks guys!

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karizzavillanueva offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 months after post)

give your ex another chance if you still love her but if you like the new girl,then try talking to her.like,when you see her not far away,catch her eye and smile at her.if you see her around try talking to her about for example like how’s her studies and about other things you want to know about her.but for the thing that she’s going out with your “sort of friend”,try talking to him if he really likes the girl.And if you’re brave and all that,try telling the girl that you like her,well it’s worth the try anyway and at least she knows you’re not ashamed of telling her and that you have the strength to do that.

well that’s all i can help up with!go0d luck!:)

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