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anyone have any last bit of advice before i go on my first date with my boyfriend to the movies?


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Leah offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
University Place, WA, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

Be yourself, don’t put out on the first date, yadda yadda.

haha. That’s what my dad told me, anyway.

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cordy11 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

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Will101 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

yea im a guy i got some advice..he chose you because your you…so just stay you.. you shouldnt have to be nervous the hard parts over with.. your already going on a date because he likes you..so just be cool and goodluck!!

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

be yourself. have fun. dont be nervous. don’t kiss him … be relaxed. HAVE FUN.

Great input Will101!

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Will101 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

well i dont know about not kissing him..lol..every guy needs a little affection now and then just dont kiss him giving him intentions that its going anywhere where it shouldnt be going..

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

hold his hand … give him a hug … let him kiss you on the cheek or hand … let him wonder about the rest. give him a reason to ask out again.

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faith love peace offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

The only thing I can tell you is just to be yourself. and have a great time. =) guys like a girl who can be herself. so be releaxed and enjoy the time you spend with him.

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Will101 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

when you go to the movies DONT TELL THE GUY YOU WANT FOOD AFTER YOUR SEATED..we as men try to be gentlemen and it backfires on us sometimes…lol..so if you want ur treats and things along that nature get it right as you walk in

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

practical advice will…. i am loving it and i will remember that too …. for when I start dating again!

I never ever thought about that! THANKS WILL!

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Will101 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

lol…netime!

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stars in the SKEYES offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

If you are sharing popcorn, ask him if he wants butter or not. I went out on a date with a guy and when I ordered popcorn to share while he went to the restroom, I got butter. He never said anything at the time. Then when he broke up for me, one of his reasons were because I like butter on my popcorn. *rolls eyes* Yeah, I think he was reaching there but just thought I would share! LOL

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Lifesadance88 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

Wait, he is your boyfriend but its your first date? How does that work? Shouldn’t you date first and then decide if you want to be boyfriend girlfriend? My advice is just be real, have fun, and be careful not to act on your emotions because it could lead to something your not ready for. Have fun:)

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Will101 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

and remember we guys have high altered egos so when your out with him in public and you feel he is having trouble communicating with you and being a jerk and trying to impress you in ways that are ridiculous….this is the time to talk to him in a one on one atmosphere.

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

lol … i am breaking up with you because you like catsup on your hambruger! lol … omg … I must remember these things!! Cuz I am going to date again and I need arsnel to get rid of those I am not interested in.

wow … will is giving us some real DARN GOOD advice.

I like you Will.

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Will101 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

lol brb.

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octopus offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

firstly DONT already call him your boyfriend… that usually occurs after many dates :-)

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