boyfriend help: i am in a long distance and my boyfriend is paranoid that i am

Miss em

Gort, 10, IE

i am in a long distance and my boyfriend is paranoid

that i am cheating on him how can i prove i am not cheating from so far away

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arvindkhanda 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

Simply with care ask the question to his boy friend that what do u want. You love me or not if you love me than why are you blaming me its mean that you don’t love me. Ask the question that he believe in that you are cheating with here if yes then he don’ts love you because love is depending on a great faith & believe each other completely.
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Miss em 1 #
Gort, 10, IE | 3 years, 2 months ago (4 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Maybe your boyfriend is insecure.maybe you get alot of male attention and he’s worried. you need to reassure him that he’s the only one your interested in. Dont let his feelings and worries get out of control.i would advise doing somthing really special for him and just make him know you’d never cheat on him. I know sometimes wrrys spiral out of control and blow up in your mind. so just try and nip it in the bud. Try and get to the bottom of where his insecurities are coming from.

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gothlover16 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (10 hours, 43 minutes after post)

he’s a insecure butthead!

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C.M.Theisen 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 3 years, 2 months ago (12 hours, 1 minute after post)

There’s probably no way for you to give your boyfriend enough reassurance. He is just going to have to learn how to trust you because you can’t prove that you never cheated. The problem is his insecurity and lack of confidence in the relationship. It might help to call him on his insecurity. Talk to him about why he doesn’t trust you and see if you can reasonably do anything to help. However, the onus is on him to learn to trust you and get past his anxieties. Building trust is hard, but not impossible.

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yay_bubbles 4 #
Cedar Falls, IA, US | 3 years, 2 months ago (18 hours, 27 minutes after post)

if your boyfriend wants to think that let him its his fault. dont let it get to you! but try to see eachother as much as you can!

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ms_evil_0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (1 month after post)

there is no way that you can prove that you are not cheating he just has to trust you and love you

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france_fiona 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (1 month, 4 weeks after post)

It’s hard to reassure him from so far away but if he knows well enough it should be possible, maybe he’s just looking for more attention and wants you to say how much you love him. Im in a long distance relationship and I’ve had my shares of insecure periods and the only thing that really worried me was that he might meet someone so special and I was not going to be enough anymore. there’s nop way of knowing what could happen but work as hard as you can to prove him your love.

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LouCool6 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (5 months after post)

Look honey i was in a close distance relationship and there was no trust and it don’t matter how many miles there are between you’s if there ain’t no trust there is no point carrying on the relationship! Sorry but kick him to the kerb and move on xxxx

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

Hey i stay 600km away from my boyfriend.
He doesnt trust me at all, he wants me to stay just at home but he always goes out and have fun with his friends. he doesnt want me to have frineds but i dont mind him having friends.He feels all the numbers in cellphone are my boyfriend’s.

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kitmous #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 years after post)

i live 1200 miles away from my boy. we have for 1 1/2 years and we’re doing fine. We both agreed that we can casually date other people, so long as things do not go too far. Also, we tell each other everything that happens on “the dates”. This helps us stay open and communicating. It can. Communication and complete honesty must happen in order for it to work though.

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