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I dated this guy for more than a year.

I know i was in love with him. I broke up with him because i was really depressed, and i got to where i didn’t think he really was in love with me. Ever since that he’s always talking about wanting to get back with me. He won’t let it go. I don’t know if i should give us a second chance or not. He keeps saying he loves me..but then he goes and does things with these two other girls. & I’m scared that if we get back I’ll end up getting hurt again. what should i do? give us another chance, or get over it?

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tamarakae200 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (53 minutes after post)

ok so first i’d have to know if he cheated??? if he did not then you should give him another chance. but you have to tell him that you will only be w/ him if he’s only w/ you. all that other girl **** has to go. if he really loves you then he will. love is not something you want to let go. w/out it you will never be truely happy

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Help me with: How can 1 person love some1 so much that it actually hurts?
msmjhnstn offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 days, 4 hours after post)

in order for you to really receive anything you have to first give it all away. in saying that, if you have truly given your all to this relationship and feel he hasn’t than walk away. never be afraid to walk away because not one of us needs to beg someone to stay. have faith that you are a caring, sincere person and go and find your happiness.

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