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I’ve lost numerous friends lately. The only you can do is make more and hope they are true friends. Be more careful who you choose. That’s all you can really do. It’s what I’m trying to do right now.
I was in a similar situation where friends I’d known for almost 10 years decided to do their own things and just leave me behind. No worries, you do get over it in time.
Yeah Ive been trying to find new friends but a guy with my reputation, its just hard.
if they just abandoned you.
maybe its time for change.
try to find some new ones.
this time chose them more wisely.
why did they leave u, cos they had relatiionships?
I used to have a huge group of friends……and now its only me and my 2 others.
We have nobody esle…all my other friends that are guys are leaving, and im not friends with anyone else in my school
I really know how you feel
If they left you like that, even though they’ve been your friends for so long it shows that you can do better and they’re not real friends
No friend(s) should ever do that to another friend
If you don’t have such a great rep then try and meet people that don’t go to your school or something
I don’t think people mean to hurt each other. Perhaps there was a misunderstanding somewhere. Why not call one of the closest ones and be honest? Tell them you miss their friendship.
Faggits u have no friends!!!!!!!!!
I’m 32 and some friends I have had for years are off doing their own thing. It is not that they are bad friends or if I really needed something I could not count on them. We all go through different stages in life, some at different times. Only time can heal these things. They may come back, they may not. At this age I’ve been through worse. I have my wife to rely on and care for. That, in the end, is all that matters. Best of luck.
Humm. So far I had counted five “I’s” in your statement (perhaps selfish and whinny poor me). Do you think leaders would be leaders if they sought to be loved. Did you get mad and act differently because of this assumption? Pay attention to your values, Love yourself and God, and then love others. You will step above this perceived pain and make the world a better place.
I know this thread is really old, but I thought I might post and add to the stories. It really helped me to know that others had been in this situation.
I was part of this really huge group of friends, and we all texted each other and hung out seriously all the time. Then I had a crush on one of them, and accidentally caused a load of drama, and the two girls who were my “best friends” decided they never wanted to talk to me again, and lead the rest of the group in the same direction, and the guy I liked got hugely upset over something I did, and dropped me like a hot rock.
At first I was really upset and quite angry at myself for causing all that trouble. I lost about 7 pounds in 2 weeks, and couldn’t even cry about it, even though I felt really upset. After a while, I forgave myself for what I did, and realized that if my friends were so willing to drop me because I made a few mistakes, they weren’t very good friends for someone like me.
So, lately, I’ve kind of been trying to bring myself up out of the ashes of all this. I’ve connected with some people I hadn’t normally talked to, and made some changes to really spark up a new flame in my life, and make new friends who aren’t so drama crazy.
I totally understand. My best friend left me when I needed her the most (I was going through a rough time). She stopped calling me, texting me, wouldn’t return my phone calls, or anything. She just ****** me over big time, especially since she was the only friend I had.
I tried to make new friends and it wasn’t the same. I know time heals wounds and all, but it has been years since she abandoned me and I am still depressed as hell. Will I get over it? Hopefully. Because ****** friends are not worth crying for.
i know how you feel. my best friend cheyenne selters totally just abondoned me after 8 years!!! 8 years! i still care about her alot and wonder if she ever thinks about me, but her mom is a bit crazy and went phsyco on me. so we will make it through together!
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