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Dating Tests and how to avoid them.

I went out with a girl that I met at school. I know she likes me, but she showed up to the date late with a guy friend. (i was picking her up at her place) Then made me wait for 45 min talking to the other guy. She did other things throughout the date that was designed to test me. What canI do from here that would let her know that I won’t stand for **** like that and she better stop if she ever wants to see me again? I am way to busy to go on these type of dates that are really just games inside her little head.

Wut to do from here?

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pamark 1 #
Rogers, AR, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

drop her and move on? Games won’t stop.

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Xeno Dragon 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Date someone else if you don’t like her. Break up with her, and tell her exactly why you’re doing it. If you don’t like the mind games, don’t date someone who does.

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Reformed15 0 #
Lewistown, PA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Id listen to both of them. It’s not worth the trouble if she wants to play mind games with you or is just testing you. If you really want her to know that you wont stand for it you tell her and confront her about it.

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Leah 2 #
University Place, WA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (59 minutes after post)

Date someone more mature?

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Xeno Dragon 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Date someone who doesn’t read Cosmo.

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pamark 1 #
Rogers, AR, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

lol good one Xeno!!

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ClosedAcount 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (13 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Don’t date her…

needana 2 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (19 hours, 19 minutes after post)

you guys are right i probably shouldn’t date her. There is only one problem now is I can’t stand that she was better than me at playing the game. I hate the fact that she worked me over and if im gonna eject from the situation I want to be the one on top.

Probably stupid but I think you guys will understand that. Wut do u think?

Xeno Dragon 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (19 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Girls don’t realize that guys don’t play games. Girls like to play games, guys just get bored and leave. You’re not losing. She is.

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ClosedAcount 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Sexism.

Both males and females “play games”.

Xeno Dragon 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 15 minutes after post)

I’ve never known a guy to play mind games like that. It’s not sexism, it’s just the way things are. Is it sexism to say that women like shoes more than guys? No, it’s just the way it is.

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needana 2 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 17 minutes after post)

everybody play games but what I think he meant to say was that most men don’t play games the way women do.

Xeno Dragon 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 19 minutes after post)

Exactly.

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ClosedAcount 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Well, I have known guys to play mind games much more than girls. But, I’m not silly enough to assume my personal experience defines a universal norm. Some guys play games, and some girls do as well. No need to generalize.

And even the last thing you said is debatable… I know plenty of guys (homo and hetero) who care more about shoes than most girls.

Xeno Dragon 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Overall, you can’t deny that point. Eveything has exceptions.

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needana 2 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Olivia thats a legit opinion but wut do you think i should do with this girl?

ClosedAcount 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 29 minutes after post)

I said “Don’t date her”

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Ballinteer, 07, IE | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Bring her on a date with your Mom, and have your Mom quiz her silly.

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