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Ok, I’m 16 and I think I look good and everything, but girls don’t really notice me.

I was wondering what do girls look for in guys at my age. I mean I’m smart athletic outgoing (more outgoing with my friends then with girls) and they dont really seem to notice me. So what do they look for.

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Engleby77 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

erm well. I can’t remember what i was looking for when i was your age, and i’m only 19. To be honest, i wasn’t much interested in guys at that point in my life, i was much more into having fun with my friends. So that may be partly the reason why you don’t get ‘noticed.’ And even so, i’m sure girls do ‘notice’ you, it may simply be that they are too shy to pursue anything.

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Grosse Tete, LA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Girls look for guys that show there soft side…

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Grosse Tete, LA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Dont act totally gay but if your like touchy but now in a bad way and if you laugh alot but not loudly but not a giggle either thats good…I liked guys that can tell a girl how they feel without feeling embarressed…

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Engleby77 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

in other words be confident with yourself. Girls loooove confidence. But not arrogance!

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Grosse Tete, LA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (20 minutes after post)

EXACTLLY

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Grosse Tete, LA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

sometimes your just going to have to say to yourself: this is one of my friends treat no different…

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Engleby77 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

well change lol. Or alternatively be yourself. I’m sure as long as it’s a comfortable silence, without awkwardness, that’s fine. Laid-back? Are you sure that’s the right word to use? That word implies you’re fine with girls. Be yourself. Dont be somebody else. You’re 16, stop worrying so much! lol

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Engleby77 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (26 minutes after post)

well then. Like i said, don’t bother too much with girls at the moment. THey’ll come whenever the moment is right. Girls all differ form one another. Just say what comes to mind, bearing in mind the type of girl she is. It’s a pretty easy thing to do really.

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Engleby77 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Yep. Everyone loves to talk about their interests and hobbies for instance, even if not all like talking about themselves. Start with that.

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Engleby77 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (33 minutes after post)

any time, :)

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Louisville, KY, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (56 minutes after post)

you can always turn to the fat ugly ones there always desperate

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Engleby77 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour after post)

legawie. Are you the one who bangs fat girls and is becoming depressed by it all?

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Cape Town, 11, ZA | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 45 minutes after post)

show the hard side

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Cape Town, 11, ZA | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 50 minutes after post)

these notices change so quick before the writing is finished tne next one is there.

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~Globe Adventure~ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Biloela, 04, AU | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

Girls at this age love a guy that can be both caring and outgoing, but not arrogant, for example if a girl is upset then ask her why, let her know that you care she is upset, girls love a guy who is confident enough to show they care.

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Engleby77 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

couldn’t have put it better myself taylor : )

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champagne_supernova1 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
New Delhi, 07, IN | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

LOL classic problem…stop trying to attract attention…be cool THEY will come!

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2 years, 2 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

I think that you should just be yourself and wait until you see a girl that you like and start talking to her.

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champagne_supernova1 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
New Delhi, 07, IN | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 month after post)

dude some girls try to act hard to get….if u have some1 short listed try to approach her and get an answer from her…whether she’s interested in you or not?

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Hahaha123 offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

why are you so stressed? half the people that replyed WERE girls. you know obviously girls and guys are different in alot of ways but were not aliens babe. think of it like this… pretend shes just one of the guys. you seem more comfortable around thoose types of chicks so why not look for one of them. yah us blondes will miss u but your more compatable with thoose people that you feel relaxed around. so dont worry about pleasing so many people… what about yourself???
(and i know most girls would look at you funny but hockey or football always gets me going as far as convo’s.)
BE YOURSELF… the more you try to please people the more you loose yourself. Trust me on this one.

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