Ok, I’m 16 and I think I look good and everything, but girls don’t really notice me.
I was wondering what do girls look for in guys at my age. I mean I’m smart athletic outgoing (more outgoing with my friends then with girls) and they dont really seem to notice me. So what do they look for.
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erm well. I can’t remember what i was looking for when i was your age, and i’m only 19. To be honest, i wasn’t much interested in guys at that point in my life, i was much more into having fun with my friends. So that may be partly the reason why you don’t get ‘noticed.’ And even so, i’m sure girls do ‘notice’ you, it may simply be that they are too shy to pursue anything.
Girls look for guys that show there soft side…
Dont act totally gay but if your like touchy but now in a bad way and if you laugh alot but not loudly but not a giggle either thats good…I liked guys that can tell a girl how they feel without feeling embarressed…
in other words be confident with yourself. Girls loooove confidence. But not arrogance!
EXACTLLY
sometimes your just going to have to say to yourself: this is one of my friends treat no different…
well change lol. Or alternatively be yourself. I’m sure as long as it’s a comfortable silence, without awkwardness, that’s fine. Laid-back? Are you sure that’s the right word to use? That word implies you’re fine with girls. Be yourself. Dont be somebody else. You’re 16, stop worrying so much! lol
well then. Like i said, don’t bother too much with girls at the moment. THey’ll come whenever the moment is right. Girls all differ form one another. Just say what comes to mind, bearing in mind the type of girl she is. It’s a pretty easy thing to do really.
Yep. Everyone loves to talk about their interests and hobbies for instance, even if not all like talking about themselves. Start with that.
you can always turn to the fat ugly ones there always desperate
legawie. Are you the one who bangs fat girls and is becoming depressed by it all?
show the hard side
these notices change so quick before the writing is finished tne next one is there.
Girls at this age love a guy that can be both caring and outgoing, but not arrogant, for example if a girl is upset then ask her why, let her know that you care she is upset, girls love a guy who is confident enough to show they care.
couldn’t have put it better myself taylor : )
LOL classic problem…stop trying to attract attention…be cool THEY will come!
I think that you should just be yourself and wait until you see a girl that you like and start talking to her.
dude some girls try to act hard to get….if u have some1 short listed try to approach her and get an answer from her…whether she’s interested in you or not?
why are you so stressed? half the people that replyed WERE girls. you know obviously girls and guys are different in alot of ways but were not aliens babe. think of it like this… pretend shes just one of the guys. you seem more comfortable around thoose types of chicks so why not look for one of them. yah us blondes will miss u but your more compatable with thoose people that you feel relaxed around. so dont worry about pleasing so many people… what about yourself???
(and i know most girls would look at you funny but hockey or football always gets me going as far as convo’s.)
BE YOURSELF… the more you try to please people the more you loose yourself. Trust me on this one.
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