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Has anyone had a longing for someone that you have not met yet.

It feels like part of your sole is missing. You call out to them and they do not answer. You can feel them out there but cannot seem to find them. I know it sounds crazy but, if you feel the same way I feel you will understand.

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Leah offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
University Place, WA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (0 minutes after post)

No, I definitely know what you’re talking about.

I hate that feeling.

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TheJDevil offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

i understand.
its a terrible feeling of emptiness
that just makes me want to break down and cry.

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truthcrysta offline Unverified User #
Biloxi, MS, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I sometime wounder had I done something bad in my past life and is being punished for it now.

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Hope offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Yeah, I’ve felt that way.

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traiesmam offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Charleston, SC, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour after post)

every one wants someone 2 complete them…(not to go all Jerry Maguire on you)

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thunderingsunsetride offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

and the answer is just as scarey if get it cause you are pinching yourself and saying is this for real

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ndiscatseyes offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

My whole life my friend my whole life! Ive even had dreams about this person and to this day never have came even close to meeting him! I can even smell him at times! I feel that Ive made this person up he is everything I have always wanted in a mate with no flaws perfect in all ways in my mind anyway! From the way he talks to the way he listens

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-Lee- offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 50 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Yes, I’ve been there, I don’t wanna go there anymore,
& I’m glad I’m free from that feeling now !

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ndiscatseyes offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

How did you free yourself do tell!

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mndztm offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
New York, NY, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

I feel this way all the time. Hope I meet my soulmate one day.

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ndiscatseyes offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I as well Mndztm

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-Lee- offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 50 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 hours, 33 minutes after post)

ndiscatseyes wrote:
How did you free yourself do tell!

I found the person, the one I’ve been longing for all my live, my soulmate :)

so now I am free :)

in my journey, i’ve meet fear, tears,
alots of unpleasant feelings, people & situations,
but in the end I found happiness and love.
I know sometimes it’s hard, and feeling really tired,
it’s ok, get rest for a while, free your mind,
maybe… he/she is the one who will find you :)
never stop believing, because it’s just a matter of time,
you’ll see…
you will win what you believe (that’s true !!!)

♥ & sunshine,
lee

maximalism offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Noma, 06, JP | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 hours, 44 minutes after post)

OMG. I always do this. It like Im in love with aperson with no facem meaning Im in love with the idea of love. lol
This happens commonly to people who havent found the one (or is there is the “one”?).

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maximalism offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Noma, 06, JP | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 hours, 45 minutes after post)

OMG. I always do this. Its like Im in love with a person with no face, meaning Im in love with the idea of love. lol
This happens commonly to people who havent found the one. Is there really a the “one”?

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (8 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Yes. I have.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (10 hours, 12 minutes after post)

yes. *blush

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ndiscatseyes offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (11 hours, 35 minutes after post)

That would indeed free you finding or being found by that speacil someone Im not there yet not even close my soul hasnt felt a tingle in so long not even butterflies! Im glad for you though Lee

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thunderingsunsetride offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

To touch the touch that no one can understand except the only true one who knows what the feel of touch is or the angony just to feel once in life time but once in life time would not be enough for you know once you feel it it should be yours for ever that no one should be able to pry you two apart……………..

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mndztm offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
New York, NY, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

I try to always envision my soulmate but I keep my options open because I it is hard to compare a fantasy with what comes your way.

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-Lee- offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 50 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 days, 4 hours after post)

ndiscatseyes wrote:
That would indeed free you finding or being found by that speacil someone Im not there yet not even close my soul hasnt felt a tingle in so long not even butterflies! Im glad for you though Lee

thank you ndiscatseyes :)
It’s just a matter of time I think, in the right time and place, with the right person then we will feel it. we can’t force that feeling to come but when it comes it’s hard to ignore it :)

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thunderingsunsetride offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (4 days, 1 hour after post)

To feel that touch that unexplainable touch you know what it is but what to share it with the one when you find the one it will be as your souls melt into one a touch that is a touch that cant be explained

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 months after post)

The Germans have a word for it - “Sehnsucht” which has roots from the words “sehnen” = desiring and “Sucht” = insatiable craving.

It’s a beautiful bittersweet concept of longing for that which you do not know yet feel as if you know more deeply than life itself. Go google it. C.S. Lewis and a few others have written extensively regarding it :)

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friends_emm offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 10 months after post)

yeah, i feel that ever y single day.. and im gonna feel that horrible feeling in 1 year…. it will be so painful but totally worth it to might even just one night lay close to him, to just know he’s there by ur side…

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 11 months after post)

i have met someone doubt they feel the same way but i miss him soooo much it kills me i really want to be wit him its such a torturing feeling to long for someone knowing he might not be for you..

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