friends help: have you ever liked someone and not told them cuz ur scared of the reaction from tat person? - Help.com

do what you feel, let your heart speak…..

Yeah, I’ve felt like that before…its hard. All I can really say is that you should do what you feel is right…

To that I’d add: what would leave you with the most regrets? The potential rejection or never knowing at all? Perhaps, if there is a good chance he might return or try to return you affection, risking it might be better than keeping silent…

But then, I really can’t talk…I’ve never taken that same advice…

What will you regret the most?

well, honestly i think u should follow ur heart, think of what he has said to u and what made you like him in the first place.

then,tell him how u feel, tell him what comes in ur mind when u first talk to him. if he likes you back he will tell you, and if not he will either grow to like you. or god just has other plans for you

I did that in high school once and it turned out the guy liked me back but by the time I found out it was too late I was already with a wonderful guy, so I saw just go for it you have nothing to lose just ask him if he’d be interested in taking you out to dinner one day if so your on

pretty teeth… he’s definately a keeper.

Well, you need to make the decision if you want to take your friendship further. Once you go there… there’s no going back. It’s a whole new level. If you like him that much… ask him on a date or something. Test the waters… see how he feels.

You’ll never know until you try though.

go with your gut feeling.

as a friend,you can tell him everything as a friend and lover you dont tell him everything ,somehow i believe its nicer to be friend with him ,and when the real one comes along wow ….

Yes, i have felt like that. I agree with the posts above, you should tell him. It’s probably better finding out than wondering ‘what if’ all the time.

Everyone seems to agree to go with your gut feeling, and I’ll have to agree with them. Why not say something? I mean if you’re that good of friends with him I doubt that will change. Even if he says he doesn’t feel the same way I’m sure he’ll be just as good of a friend as before. I took that risk not long ago, and I don’t regret it. Sometimes those things don’t work out, but there is always a chance that it might. But it’s up to you and whether or not you feel it’s worth it. :)

How long have you known him?

Do you have any reason to believe he might like to be more than friends?

I had that problem but i waited to long and she moved away… all i can say now is that i regret it