girl help: This confuses me i am surrounded by girls that like me and want to date me and yet for some weird reason i don’t like any of them.

*kyle*

This confuses me i am surrounded by girls that like me and want to date me and yet for some weird reason i don’t like any of them.

I just can’t get my ex out of my head and don’t get it this has never happened to me before I’ve always just gotten over and moved on quickly in the past so i just don’t know what to do.

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Xeno Dragon 28 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Just because you like girls doesn’t mean you’ll want to date anything in a skirt. You don’t have to be dating, and you don’t have to worry. You’re just getting over your ex, and you don’t happen to like the girls that like you. No worries.

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jm_2007 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (20 minutes after post)

even though a girl likes you doesn’t mean you have to like them.. i’m sure your still trying to deal wtih your ex and that’s why your not interested in any girls.. in time your mind might chance… everything will be ok!!!!

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zzzzzz_hur #
Calgary, AB, CA | 2 years, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

calm down, you can cope with them, just politely refuse and say you have something planned already and say mabye next time

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

zzzzzz_hur wrote:
calm down, you can cope with them, just politely refuse and say you have something planned already and say mabye next time

why would you lie to a girl? just tell her the truth that your not interested…

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zetzer_ 1 #
Opa Locka, FL, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (40 minutes after post)

lol i was placed in similar situation but i liked one of the girls that liked me, everything actually turned out great man, do any of them interest you?

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*kyle* 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (4 hours, 23 minutes after post)

A couple of them are gorgeous but it doesn’t do anything for me i know i’ll be fine with time but i’ve just never not been not interested in anyone.. like not at all i’ve tired but it just feels empty and makes me feel worse then before.

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juststayforeve 0 #
Nashville, TN, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 hours, 34 minutes after post)

it sounds like you’ve had a pretty big thing going on between you and your ex, or atleast for you. take your time, these things don’t fade quickly..i’d like to say they do but they really don’t. in the mean time, one thing u can do is just explain these girls that you’re still getting over your ex and really don’t feel like dating right now.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

do you hang around her..if you do it is probably why you cant get over her…space is what you need

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (7 months after post)

look dunt cheat on one or pretend u love her
and dun’t force urself to luv 1 just choose the 1 that fits for u evn if it’s not in those grls then wait it’ll cme maybe after years who knows !!

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AnnieNYC 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 months after post)

You can’t force yourself to spend time with girls and date them when you are not ready. Yes, it is always good to get back out there, but you will be doing yourself and any other girl in your future a favor by giving yourself some time to get over the ex completely and figure out your needs. I’ve dated guys who were still not quite over there ex’s. It just wasn’t healthy. So you are better off being honest and telling them no thank you than saying yes and then not being fully present.

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ghales101 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (11 months, 3 weeks after post)

well give yourself time
the only surefire way to get over your ex is to wait it out. rushing in to things may have negative reprocussions.

Stunna 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

go out and meet other people man! give yourself time too.

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