ok pure and simple, the premise is as follows.
since a few months back I’ve started to develop some feelings towards a coworker of mine, I find her funny, attractive and a great person to just be around. Now I don’t know if this is mutual, I’ve never been good at deciphering the female language, but I’ve considerd telling her about it, or simply asking her out (which really isn’t a simple thing for me…). But I’m just not sure, whatever I say, or do, I don’t want it to seem too casual “friendish”, but neither too serious…
And one of the biggest bothers is that if the feeling is not mutual, how will the work relationship be after? I’d hate to loose the great friend/co-worker I have.
Or if it is mutual, that too changes the co-worker/friend part.
Or if I don’t do anything…
All I know is I need to make a decision, fast, as I’ve been really distracted at work lately (due to many reasons, this being one), and I need to get my head cleared.
Doesn’t help the job if I occasionally suddenly get short of breath, or wake up late for work cause I’ve had trouble sleeping…
any advice?
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