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Does anyone know of any outlets or hip social groups that do not involve drinking?

I don’t want to go to AA and be preached at, I want to go where people are friends trying to improve their lives and support each other while doing so. I want to find some new friends with goals and striving to achieve. Please Help!

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live.enjoylife offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

I would find a group that doesnt focus on that - what are your interests?? Hiking group? Book club? Also, may want to consider volunteering - my guy volunteered at the mission helping to feed the homeless and met all kinds of cool people….

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live.enjoylife offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I just saw the ‘goals’/striving to achieve piece ….do you have political or civil rights interests? think about joining ’cause’ groups if so - i got involved in moveon dot org - they are HUGe pro civil rights group….All of the people i met through that organization are successful/striving people….how old are you?

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zaphod offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Erie, PA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

i never bought an ounce of alcohol in my life. i am 30. of course, i have no friends. so i would suggest chess club, kite club and ham radio. awww scr#w it, go buy a keg and get wasted.

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2 years, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

you may want to consider getting into sports classes/local Y - athletic things…i know people in those crowds also can be into drinking, but not all of them….keep at it - you’ll find it….we dont drink much either and you really can find fun/cool people….yoga is a cool crowd / very alternative…if you’re into God, pursue that scene…

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dsteedma offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Grand Blanc, MI, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Thank yo for all of your replies. I do have hobbies but they all seem to involved or end with drinking. I Play Rugby, Coach Rugby, Play Soccer, and Coach Soccer… Thank you for the politcal piece I am going to look into that. you said its moveon.org???

About God, I am a very spiritual person but I don’t want to have to talk about how spiritual I am and how great God is 24×7… He/She is great we all know it but I don’t want to hear that you found a penny on the subway and it how blessed you are that he put it there just for you. Sorry bout that rant but it really does drive me crazy…

I just want to have responsible friendships. I can’t withdraw from society completly…

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Goodfella offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

you will find after a while you can go anywhere you want ….you just make your mind up drinking is not an option…..I Know…..Good Luck….Your spirtuality really does come into play…You know you can’t do it on your own !

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Goodfella offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Thanx dsteedma…..for your input…RON

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Cajun offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Dolores Hidalgo, 11, MX | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

welcome, you found it

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dsteedma offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Grand Blanc, MI, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 43 minutes after post)

Thanks Cajun… I’ve spent enough time today… I suppose it could be!

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Dolores Hidalgo, 11, MX | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 47 minutes after post)

but be careful of the dark side, there is a ying to this yang

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