Love help: How can you tell a girl that you really care and love her?

deadrise

How can you tell a girl that you really care and love her?

She is always in my mind, and when I see her I feel all good inside. We hang out a lot and get along great. She seems to tell me all lot stuff and then she wonders why and feels bad for telling me everything that she is going through. Yet I don’t mind. I have tried to think of a way to tell her but I all ways seem to change the subject or just give her a compliant. I just want to tell how I feel even if she does not return it I still want to try to keep a friendship with her. I am just lost, and I wont to know why she affects me so.

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Izzy007 2 #
Lynn, I9, GB | 5 years, 8 months ago (1 minute after post)

have you tried the old direct approach… like jus tellin her…????

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Birmingham, A7, GB | 5 years, 8 months ago (12 minutes after post)

she will never know how you feel unless you tell her, just be open and honest, this is the only way. Thnks 4 replying on my worries and all the best with your endeavours.

deadrise 1 #
Richmond, TX, US | 5 years, 8 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Thanks I guess I just have to “Bite the Bullet” as the saying goes. Well I will tell her, and see how it all works out.

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Nowhereman 1 #
Bandeirante, 29, BR | 5 years, 8 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Seriously there are thousands of ways to do this. But the best approach is what is natural to you. What do you feel inclined to say? Think about it a bit….but NOT too much….then just go for it! Truly!

slowboiledfro 2 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 5 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Good job deadrise, tell her how you feel! The greatest risk is the one you never take.

deadrise 1 #
Richmond, TX, US | 5 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

Thanks everyone. I am going to tell her how I feel, or I will regret it from forever.

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Anonymous #
5 years, 8 months ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

I guess you are in my situation. I just sat her down in a empty park and had a deep chat, I could really speak (petrified) but she helped me.

flexalicious 11 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 5 years, 8 months ago (5 hours, 5 minutes after post)

You know her better than us it really depends on you and how she is. Maybe it isnt the right time maybe there is no right time. Maybe find a way to present it that would make her happy or smile put some real thought into as it is your heart you are putting out there we cant tell you how to present it only offer suggestions. What makes this girl happy?

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deadrise 1 #
Richmond, TX, US | 5 years, 8 months ago (5 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Well she always likes to go to Starbucks and get coffee and just talk. That is what we do normally or just go to the mall simple things really.

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flexalicious 11 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 5 years, 8 months ago (6 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Sounds like a good friendship that is important before moving forward. Just think about it dont rush into it there is no need to rush she is going no where, does she talk about opther guys ? that would be the only reason to rush the confession of your feelings.

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deadrise 1 #
Richmond, TX, US | 5 years, 8 months ago (6 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Well she does talk about them from time to time. Along with whatever else is on her mind. That is the really big reason I am confused.

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thunderingsunsetride 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 5 years, 8 months ago (14 hours, 42 minutes after post)

just hand her a rose

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US | 5 years, 8 months ago (22 hours, 43 minutes after post)

How old are you deadrise? If u really love her go for it but if your too young than you wouldnt wanna scare her, Do yoou see what I am saying. But than you will always regret andnot be able to get her and that question out of ure mind so i say GO FOR It.

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deadrise 1 #
Richmond, TX, US | 5 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

I am 20 and she is about to turn 20 in a few months. She is going through a thing were she hangs out with a guy once or twice. She tells me that she is looking for the right guy. Every time I think of asking her she talks about other guys that she and her friends hung out with. I guess I am worried that I might get in the way or mess something up. She seems to tell me everything, and wants to know why guys do stuff. I know she is looking for the right guy and normal she is talking about one or two a week that is thinking about. I am all lost even wonder if I stand a chance. She seems to think that I am little quite due to coming back from overseas with the Navy and trying to fit back into normal life after a bad injure. I find it easier to work and put my life on the line then tell her how I feel. Oh thats bad.

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