I don’t know how to start this post…
.its just I feel stuck like i cant get out of the dead end relationship with my boyfriend.
I love him, the way he looks and the way he is but then that’s where it goes wrong, I mean don’t get me wrong but he is the sweetest bloke around and makes me feel special (sometimes) its just he is absolutely IN LOVE with his brother and quite honestly, my bloke is a WANNABE totally obsessed with his brother.
I want a bloke who knows himself, you know, be his own person but he is constantly trying to impress his brother (who he lives with)
Also i need to get one thing straight, his brother treats him like absolute crap he has just split from his wife who he used to hit if he didn’t get his own way and now my boyfriend has moved in to help him out he is taking the absolute mick my bloke has ended up doing EVERYTHING including looking after his two children whilst his brother lays on the sofa smoking weed.
Also my boyfriend never wants to go out anywhere like even a walk in the park or anything BUT he will go anywhere his brother wants him to.
And my boyfriend also borrows money from me and time and time again i give it to him thinking to myself ‘well ill get it back one day’ oh and the list does go on.
But now I have hit a rock a couple weeks back i went out got drunk and went to see him that night after lots of nagging to see me from my boyfriend funny story really but i was stuck in some area i don’t know very well trying to flag down a cab (after ringing one and them saying there was an hour and half wait) and as I got into the black cab this weird bloke who previously asked for directions jumped in my cab. Feeling very intimidated and vulnerable so i said nothing to the bloke obviously just wanting to get to see my boyfriend. when i got near my boyfriends house i asked the cab driver to stop at the top of the road as i didn’t want the bloke to see where i was going. As i went to pay the driver my bit of the fare i realised i didn’t have enough money so i legged it lol.
When i got near my boyfriends house he opened the door with me absolutely scared stiff as the cab driver had chased me around the estate, my boyfriend accused me of talking to someone near his house….well guess what i wasn’t, really i wasn’t and the other day his brother brought it up as if he wanted to cause an argument saying i was out of order for getting in a cab with some bloke and claimed he heard me talking to someone.
Well it did cause a row and now its like I’m being turned into this scheming sly woman that I’m not.
OK i would go mad if my bloke got in a cab with another female but it wasn’t for his brother to say and if my boyfriend didn’t say anything more I’m sure he understood that i was genuinely frightened that night but his brother has swayed my boyfriends thoughts.
Look people i don’t care if you reply although id love you to i know it is complicated. but it has just helped me get it all out love for you all. Happi
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