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You gave her a second chance, dont give her a third.. She obviously doesn’t respect or and appreciate you enough to stay true to you, and she won’t realise it untill your gone.. Leave her alone and get on with your life without her, u deserve to be treated with respect. If you love her you can love her from a distance, where she can no longer hurt you.. ‘When your walking through hell, walk faster’ get out of the place where u are now.
Sadly she does not know what she wants. Obviously she has some feelings for you and some for the ex-boyfriend. You have to do what is best for you and that means you need to move on. It will be difficult, but the pain will subside. Just try not to become bitter with the experience. There are others out there that will deserve your trust and devotion.
It seems to me that she still has feelings for her ex. It would be easy for me to say leave her etc etc…but you need to find your own time and deep down you know the answer to your questions but we want to find a magic wond and make it all alright. I guess in time you will find the strength despite how much it might hurt you will find the strength to do what is right for you. I am really sorry your going through this and I wish all the best in finding a closure.
Im so very sorry. I know what is’s like to love someone so deeply that you forgive and forget over and over. But what I have learned is that everyone has a breaking point and a responsibility to themselves. She is hurting you. Its evident in your post.
You cant keep taking her back. Its only hurting you. The best thing to do, in my opinion, is to break ties with her completely. She obviously does respect you if she “made a mistake” and continues to make it over and over again. You deserve better.
Thank you all for your help….
I know that i must do this and i will be in pain for a long time…
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Hello everyone.
I have a problem with my girlfriend.I live in Rome and she is out for studies at England.Basicly its her last year and she will graduate…I`m with her 2 and a half years and i love her more than everything else in this world.Before me she was in a relationship with a guy that he left her for a ridiculous reason.He told her that she cant see her as her girlfriend anymore…After 6 months i`ve met her and i was in love with her at the first sight.I was a bit shy in the beginning.4 months together when i got in her house i saw her that she was a bit anxyous and i asked her whats wrond.She told me nothing just a friend of her had a problem.I asked her if she wants to talk about it and she told me that her friend cheated her boyfriend and she doesn`t know what to do an if she tell him what happed how he will react.She asked me for my opinion.I told her i would break up with her and she looked me scared.After that we began to make love and she started to cry.I looked at her and i asked her whats wrond.She told me i`m the friend that i was talking about before and she started to cry loud.My heart stopped beating…i looked her that she was really in pain too and i felt the world came to an end.I took her in my arms and she was scared but she stopped crying…She looked into my eyes and i told her to stop crying….The day after she sent me an email and she told me that she loves me very much and she didn`t know that i was goning to react like that and she needs me and she didn`t want to lose me.For 7 months everything was ok until the day she went to England for Studies.I know a lond distance relationship…In the begining it was so devastating and i was crying like a baby all the time.One day i told her is she wanted me to come and she was so exited!So i went in England!It was one of the best parts of my life…Huging the person you love and feeling her in your arms again…4 days later we went together to the uni and she gave me her laptop to stay in the library until she finishes her lessons.I`ve tooked the laptop,opened it and i found at the documents a chat log with him….I felt my feet cold.Anger…I`ve read what she and he telling to each other and i felt like a dick…He told her that he misses her and she told him the same…After she finished from the class she came to find me at the library.She looked me and asked me whats wrong.I told her that i found the chat logs with him….She looked me frozen…I told her i want to take my stuff from her place and go back to Rome.She started to cry and she told me she wont talk to him anymore…I gave her a second chance…For two years we were ok…Absolutly ok!I thought she was over him….Until this September…One day because she didnt had an internet connection she told me to sign in her email account to see something.After 3-4 days her behaviour started to change…I knew that something was wrong in the whole picture and i did a think that it was the biggest mistake in a relationship.Get in to her email…And then i saw her talking with him again…Not only with emails and with Instant Messenger….She tells me that she is going to bed to sleep and she talks to him…Every night…I`m losing my mind here.I`ve stopped sleeping at nights…All i think is to find a reason to tell her why she stills talks to him…Why is she doing this to me?Is she still in love with him after all these things that he did to her????Doesn`t she thinks of me at all????
Can anyone please help me?
Thank you and sorry if my English are not good. :(
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