Love help: its unbareable… and im so fed up.

shalaley

its unbareable…

and im so fed up. i beleve help is needed?

my friend and i are having some problems…. and well she beleves hers are worse than mine. yest neither of us know what exactly is going on with eachtother. she said i hate you and all that lovely crap and i just got fed up…..

this guy likes me but i have just gotten out of a horribal break up on my behalf.. yet i still have feelings for him [ my 1st love ] i told this guy im not ready for e relationship. then he told all my friends he didnt care for me any more. . . but its not that i dont like him its that im not ready to have some one tell me they care and then shoot me down - it hurts. badly…

i cant stand my sisters b/f they have been dating for about 3 weeks.. and are already talking about marriage and children. she is still a child. and i am younger than her!… its so bothersome because all her free time between work and school is spent with him. im her little sister and she sould be my person to look up to…

and there is a lot of pressure given off by my parents… i know its demanded some times but ive wanted to be a lawyer sence i was 7… my dreams have chanced and id love to work as a physician…. big goal for a little girl is what they always say and i know that thoes kind of goals need alot of work and time… but how do i tell them that i want to be an artist too..? how do i pick on or the other…. i cant.

on top of all this. im coping with the loss of some one dear to me…. my hero and my idol. he was everything i wanted to be and so much more. i’d like to visit him more often but im only 15 and cannot walk 10-15 miles to the site… i cant let my parents know loosing him killed me forever…. family is everything and even more when one becomes a bestfriend… i miss him … i want to make him proud. i want to make my parents proud. i want to be a sister to my sister. and a daughter to my mother… but its so difficult constantly thinking about leaving the world.

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thunderingsunsetride 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Hon you need to read my blurb and think again

Help me with: Goodnight all i am taking some pain meds and going to bed to bad it is alone i need a cuddler female type

shalaley 1 #
Fayetteville, NY, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

thunderingsunsetride wrote:
Hon you need to read my blurb and think again

i dont know what you mean by a blurb… if its your mini profile i already read it. & iknoww

thunderingsunsetride 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (25 minutes after post)

then you read it

Help me with: Goodnight all i am taking some pain meds and going to bed to bad it is alone i need a cuddler female type

robynne 0 #
New Castle, DE, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

honey you can be an artist and a doctor. one requires college education the other requires talent. if you arewilling to put forthe the effort it can happen. but truthfully instead of trying to make other people proud of you you need to make yourself proud and they will follow suit. as long as you are not a drunk, drug addict or in jail i’m sure they as parents are happy with you, sometimes a parent wnats more for heir child then they can give and othertimes a parent will think that be casue they can’t do better then there is no better. it’s up to you, your efforts , your goals, and your willingness to do what has to be done to acheive those goals. onething to remember -doctors make money, artists make pretty. you can’t live on pretty alone. but many doctors have hobbies that can make them money as well on the side. get the point. good luck and don’t think about leaving this world the optional locations aren’t that great.

shalaley 1 #
Fayetteville, NY, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

=/ thanks -> =]

shalaley 1 #
Fayetteville, NY, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

but i still dont know what to do about my other few problems can anyone else help here?

robynne 0 #
New Castle, DE, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 hours, 47 minutes after post)

your sister and the boyfriend- well its call infatuation. in time it will wear off some. your right she should be a role model but sometimes older siblings forget that and get wrapped up in thier own little world. instead of her being your role model you should be yourself. don’tlet romance rule your life. be your own person and let her see that you can be a role model too. a role model is a person that does the right thing for the right reasons. that is why we look up to them not just because they are older and suppossibly wiser. sometimes age allowss errors and errors lead us astray. sometimes we learn best what not to do from watching others mistakes rather then learning what to do. be yourself, be true to yourself and let her lead her own path

shalaley 1 #
Fayetteville, NY, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (4 hours, 39 minutes after post)

im trying the best i can to deal with this stuff its jsut really hard…

thunderingsunsetride 1 #
Boise, ID, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (7 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Leaving this world is not the answer and believe me i have be brought back to life 7 times it has taught me a lot and if any here wants to talk to me directly ask the administor for my email address I am new to this site and I am not sure how to give it to those of you directly

Help me with: Goodnight all i am taking some pain meds and going to bed to bad it is alone i need a cuddler female type

cillie #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (19 hours, 50 minutes after post)

Sugar, you have so many questions that you do not know where to begin. Go and sit down and write down each and every ? that you may have. Once you have done that, skip a day en then go back to the paper and answer the first one as if you are giving advice to somebody you know well. The next day you do the same until all the ?’s have been answered. Once that has been done, skip a day and thn look at your first ?. Try to place yourself out of th emotions and look at it from a different angel. What I am trying to do is for you to climb out of your box (life with issues) and re-arrange all the issues inside. Sort, stack and pack them. When you have decided it is the right way to deal with it, close the smaller box and put it away. Hope this makes sense, if not, give me a shout again.
Luv

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shalaley 1 #
Fayetteville, NY, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (23 hours, 6 minutes after post)

its not as much the questions i have its just one. how do i deal with these peoblems…. idkkk

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