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LISTEN UP GUYS:

Some of you guys post things like:
I’m fat and i wanna lose weight but I don’t want to do anything that makes me have to excersize as to lose weight

or

I’m a loser and I don’t have any friends, and I can’t make any friends because i lied and cheated all the kids in school so i need advice on how i can be popular

or

i need 10,000 dollars by 6 00 PM!

Look, here at Help.com, everyone wants to help you. But this isn’t a place of magic and wonders and miracles. Nobody’s gonna read posts like these and say; “ok, i’ll make this happen with a wave of my wand!”
and POOF! it happens. Everyone tries their best okay? But if you’re asking for help, and eliminating all the posibilities, it’s not likely you’ll get any answers. I mean, if you want to lose weight, what better thing to do than exercise?
or if you have completlely violated everyone’s trust, it’s your life you spolied, and it YOU who made it happen, it was YOUR mistake, and nobody’s actually gonna fly an airplane to your house and say, “let’s be best friends”
Also, lots of people here are like, “I need money by tomorow!” And a very slim chance that will happen.
Please, don’t go around making these kind of posts. it’s bad for everyone, and you’re just passing the problem around. Thank you!

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Izzy007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Lynn, I9, GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

you still tryin to save the world hunn….x

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Always love you offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

lol thanks izzy

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Izzy007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Lynn, I9, GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

so cj.. you been listenin in.????

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Izzy007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Lynn, I9, GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

that was you the other day… that anon… ???

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Izzy007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Lynn, I9, GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Sarah rah rah wrote:
In fact I think this post is pretty inappropriate, if you want to dig at someone who needs help, do it in their post, if you are really going to be so insensitive.

does that make you a hypocrite

Sarah rah rah wrote:
People need help regardless of how they get the help. So I think anyone should be allowed to make whatever posts they want (within reason). Give them a break.

?????????????

no offence…. :)

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AnishK offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

I think clara’s right. ask what you want, but bear in mind that nobody’s a wizard (or witch).

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Izzy007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Lynn, I9, GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (5 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Izzy007 wrote:

Sarah rah rah wrote:
In fact I think this post is pretty inappropriate, if you want to dig at someone who needs help, do it in their post, if you are really going to be so insensitive.

does that make you a hypocrite

Sarah rah rah wrote:
People need help regardless of how they get the help. So I think anyone should be allowed to make whatever posts they want (within reason). Give them a break.

?????????????

no offence…. :)

it was said purely in jest… like i said no offence..

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Izzy007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Lynn, I9, GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (5 hours, 42 minutes after post)

an i think what clara is trying to say is there are a lot of time wasters out there.. people who do not want to help themselves… im sure you look at some of the posts an think “oh please!! are you for real”… oh an before any one gets upset, this reply is not.. NOT… directed at ony one person… ;)

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Izzy007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Lynn, I9, GB | 2 years, 2 months ago (5 hours, 54 minutes after post)

it does bother me that people post thier problems,usually anon or new users, an we try to help them, we take the time to think about thier problem, we invite our friends to try to help, an our friends invite thier friends, and before you know it, you have this worldwide army of help… and they dont bother to reply.. now thats rude… jus down right RUDE….

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Yondaime offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
LS | 2 years, 2 months ago (6 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Lol, its called help for a reason. A situation is given with limitations and a solution is requested. This isn’t www.Give-an-everyday-question-so-that-I-can-give-you an-everyday-answer.com

If you cant help the person, don’t try..

No one is asking for a genie or a wizard, their just asking for advice based on a given situation.

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In-The-Making offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Muranów, 67, PL | 2 years, 2 months ago (8 hours, 48 minutes after post)

lol, the people that come here and say they desperately need to get thinner, and they’re gonna start puking, and they don’t want to excersize, are just looking for attention.I don’t mean the people that come here looking for help with an ED. So if you want to get thin sooo bad, EXCERSIZE!The ppl that want to be popular, are LOSERS, and I don’t mean the people that say how can I make friends, or how can I make up with a friend. Because it doesn’t matter if you are popular, as long as you have real friends. And still. Those people are looking for help, so, if you see some reasonable help you can give, give it to them, no matter how weird the question.

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WantMore offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

I think asking for help is the hard part. Even though they may not like our answers, I think that most of the serious posters take note with them. They chew on it a while.

Sometimes it just takes a while to sink in.

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